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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 156154" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Vicki</p><p> </p><p>I understand where MB and others are coming from. </p><p> </p><p>And I know how much you love Aly, how far you've come in your personal growth. I know the background that brought you to where you are now. And I know why the break is necessary for both you and Aly.</p><p> </p><p>I'd say due to past experiences, what took place in your original post isn't really surprising, although I know upsetting. Sounds to me like you all handled the situation fairly well. I might not agree had Aly come and told you straight away what was going on. But she's still just a kid, too. So can't really lay it at her feet either.</p><p> </p><p>I'd slip in some extra therapist visits to let Aly work this out.</p><p> </p><p>I didn't think you were blaming Aly. I think you were stunned and upset this happened. But it's important for you to know that it's not uncommon with abused kids. (first hand experience here) And even easy child's wanting to explore post a look out so they don't get caught. Does show they have much more to work on in therapy, though.</p><p> </p><p>Now I'm with Star, you better stick around. Cuz in my opinion you don't post enough as it is. And we MISS you when you're gone.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 156154, member: 84"] Vicki I understand where MB and others are coming from. And I know how much you love Aly, how far you've come in your personal growth. I know the background that brought you to where you are now. And I know why the break is necessary for both you and Aly. I'd say due to past experiences, what took place in your original post isn't really surprising, although I know upsetting. Sounds to me like you all handled the situation fairly well. I might not agree had Aly come and told you straight away what was going on. But she's still just a kid, too. So can't really lay it at her feet either. I'd slip in some extra therapist visits to let Aly work this out. I didn't think you were blaming Aly. I think you were stunned and upset this happened. But it's important for you to know that it's not uncommon with abused kids. (first hand experience here) And even easy child's wanting to explore post a look out so they don't get caught. Does show they have much more to work on in therapy, though. Now I'm with Star, you better stick around. Cuz in my opinion you don't post enough as it is. And we MISS you when you're gone. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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