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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 221905" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Im glad he was excited over something, poor thing he's all mixed up right now. I totally can see you being spent and done at this time of the day, i hope your sleeping right now.</p><p> </p><p>I know this is far easier said than done right now, yet you really can't spend and waste what energy you have left on worry about the "what if's" right now. You are doing your best to handle a situation in which right now you need some help with, and going with your "mom gut" and support from others with whom have been there is ok. </p><p> </p><p>Yet what I would do is once you do talk to the doctor tmrw is inform him of what you learned tongiht and also regarding the other medication you pulled so he is up to speed and can back you up if needed. As far as the courts are concerned, and i dont' know the entire situation, yet if the docs up to speed on it, and remember you are doing this out of caring for your son. Maybe the doctor can shed some light as to the other medication and maybe that's why this sudden anger and cutting as well.</p><p> </p><p>Sometimes in life i have learned, and yes for me it's like the brick over the head affect lol, is necessary that the way we'd like to handle something just doens't work, and we have to go with the flow of it. I guess what i'm saying is if after speaking to the doctor about what's been happening that you learned he may want you to move forward with a different plan and maybe thats ok, it's just a different way of achieving the same goal.</p><p> </p><p>I'm a control freak when it comes to difficult child's treatment, iv'e told off many a dr. switched when they do something that upsets me, yet now i've learned to breath a little. yet i know you have so much more on your plate than i in regards to the behaviors your seeing. i think you have handled it really well, and still maintained your job to boot you should be proud of yourself.</p><p> </p><p>it'll all be ok, just take sometime for you inbetween all this to keep you ok thru it, he's going to need you when whatever treatment or placement begins.</p><p> </p><p>sleep good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 221905, member: 4514"] Im glad he was excited over something, poor thing he's all mixed up right now. I totally can see you being spent and done at this time of the day, i hope your sleeping right now. I know this is far easier said than done right now, yet you really can't spend and waste what energy you have left on worry about the "what if's" right now. You are doing your best to handle a situation in which right now you need some help with, and going with your "mom gut" and support from others with whom have been there is ok. Yet what I would do is once you do talk to the doctor tmrw is inform him of what you learned tongiht and also regarding the other medication you pulled so he is up to speed and can back you up if needed. As far as the courts are concerned, and i dont' know the entire situation, yet if the docs up to speed on it, and remember you are doing this out of caring for your son. Maybe the doctor can shed some light as to the other medication and maybe that's why this sudden anger and cutting as well. Sometimes in life i have learned, and yes for me it's like the brick over the head affect lol, is necessary that the way we'd like to handle something just doens't work, and we have to go with the flow of it. I guess what i'm saying is if after speaking to the doctor about what's been happening that you learned he may want you to move forward with a different plan and maybe thats ok, it's just a different way of achieving the same goal. I'm a control freak when it comes to difficult child's treatment, iv'e told off many a dr. switched when they do something that upsets me, yet now i've learned to breath a little. yet i know you have so much more on your plate than i in regards to the behaviors your seeing. i think you have handled it really well, and still maintained your job to boot you should be proud of yourself. it'll all be ok, just take sometime for you inbetween all this to keep you ok thru it, he's going to need you when whatever treatment or placement begins. sleep good. [/QUOTE]
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