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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 629278" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Worried it's a shame that your husband does not have the feelings for your son that one would hope, he should have considered that when he asked you to marry him. However, that is no reason for your son to blame his problems on your husband but it is a good excuse I guess. It would be wonderful if your son could find a counselor that would help him deal with the issues that are interferring with him finding healthy outlets. There are many people who grow up with distant parents, they don't all turn to drugs. </p><p></p><p>If it were me, and you can only do what you feel comfortable with, I would tell my husband that if he can't support me then he should stay out of the discipline of my child. It is so important that the parents stick together when dealign with drug issues because kids will use this to further tear them apart. </p><p></p><p>I know we sometimes sound like a broken record here but I hope you can find some support for you whether that is al-anon or families anonymous or a counselor or community support group. You will be surprised that when you change so do those around you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 629278, member: 59"] Worried it's a shame that your husband does not have the feelings for your son that one would hope, he should have considered that when he asked you to marry him. However, that is no reason for your son to blame his problems on your husband but it is a good excuse I guess. It would be wonderful if your son could find a counselor that would help him deal with the issues that are interferring with him finding healthy outlets. There are many people who grow up with distant parents, they don't all turn to drugs. If it were me, and you can only do what you feel comfortable with, I would tell my husband that if he can't support me then he should stay out of the discipline of my child. It is so important that the parents stick together when dealign with drug issues because kids will use this to further tear them apart. I know we sometimes sound like a broken record here but I hope you can find some support for you whether that is al-anon or families anonymous or a counselor or community support group. You will be surprised that when you change so do those around you. [/QUOTE]
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