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Hi Newbie here. Venting hoping for advice/commiseration
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 582189" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>STOP!</p><p></p><p>You did NOT cause this.</p><p>At least, you sure haven't given any evidence that you caused it.</p><p>I don't expect you used drugs and alcohol during pregnancy, or left her screaming and hungry in her crib for hours, or refused to hold and cuddle... yes, there are some things that "cause" problems.</p><p>IT ISN'T YOU.</p><p></p><p>Not that we can't learn different approaches and ways of parenting, that can make some difference. Being part of the solution is not at all the same thing as being part of the problem.</p><p></p><p>Has anybody suggested "The Explosive Child" yet?</p><p>That book really opened my eyes to the kinds of challenges these kids really have... and a different way to approach things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 582189, member: 11791"] STOP! You did NOT cause this. At least, you sure haven't given any evidence that you caused it. I don't expect you used drugs and alcohol during pregnancy, or left her screaming and hungry in her crib for hours, or refused to hold and cuddle... yes, there are some things that "cause" problems. IT ISN'T YOU. Not that we can't learn different approaches and ways of parenting, that can make some difference. Being part of the solution is not at all the same thing as being part of the problem. Has anybody suggested "The Explosive Child" yet? That book really opened my eyes to the kinds of challenges these kids really have... and a different way to approach things. [/QUOTE]
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