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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 385160" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>it's hard when their that defiant. yet truthfully if i did 1,2,3 to my child she'd blow thru the roof in a hot second. i could totally see how that would escalate it.</p><p> </p><p>what if you simply ignored the tantrum? sounds insane i know. yet dont' feed into it at all. you stayed calm which i gotta say is great, i umm probably would of been getting louder by the minute. what if you just calmly said i will not talk to you when u are this way. if he continues to slam doors, etc. get easy child into another area. i had to do this wtih my step daughter when she was raging bad about 2 3 years ago.</p><p> </p><p>than i wouldnt' hand down the punishment until it's over either. that's just me. you count, he blows more, he slams door, gets reaction from you. do you see my point? sorry it's late i'm tired lol. i do the same with-my kid to be honest than after it's over i sit back and say hmmm i could of changed how i did that! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> it's not easy i know, hang in there.</p><p> </p><p>try set answers for set behaviors. make sure he knows the rules before hand and the countdown thing I don't know if id' use it 50% of the time isnt' enough for you right now you need more like 70%</p><p> </p><p>hang in there!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 385160, member: 4514"] hi it's hard when their that defiant. yet truthfully if i did 1,2,3 to my child she'd blow thru the roof in a hot second. i could totally see how that would escalate it. what if you simply ignored the tantrum? sounds insane i know. yet dont' feed into it at all. you stayed calm which i gotta say is great, i umm probably would of been getting louder by the minute. what if you just calmly said i will not talk to you when u are this way. if he continues to slam doors, etc. get easy child into another area. i had to do this wtih my step daughter when she was raging bad about 2 3 years ago. than i wouldnt' hand down the punishment until it's over either. that's just me. you count, he blows more, he slams door, gets reaction from you. do you see my point? sorry it's late i'm tired lol. i do the same with-my kid to be honest than after it's over i sit back and say hmmm i could of changed how i did that! :) it's not easy i know, hang in there. try set answers for set behaviors. make sure he knows the rules before hand and the countdown thing I don't know if id' use it 50% of the time isnt' enough for you right now you need more like 70% hang in there!! [/QUOTE]
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