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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 661487" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am so sorry for the situation you find yourself in.</p><p></p><p>It underscores to me the need for me to change so that I have the strength to bear what I have to. Because we indeed have no control over the poor choices of our adult children.</p><p></p><p>Of course the housing program must have limits, so that the other residents are not compromised by our sons' behavior.</p><p></p><p>This is a process. At some point, we hope our sons will get that the consequences to them for their short-term self-indulgence are not worth it.</p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, there is gratitude that he will be treated by PACT.</p><p></p><p>I have learned that there are always more chances. The first opportunity is not necessarily the best. In any event, this is neither here or there.</p><p></p><p>Your son has decided by his actions that this set up was not his path to take.</p><p></p><p>I find myself in the same situation as are you. My heart is in my mouth, waiting for my son to do the right thing. Or not.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime I will learn how not to destroy myself in the process. And to have the fullest life that I can.</p><p></p><p>I hope you keep posting. So we can help each other.</p><p></p><p>Take care.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 661487, member: 18958"] I am so sorry for the situation you find yourself in. It underscores to me the need for me to change so that I have the strength to bear what I have to. Because we indeed have no control over the poor choices of our adult children. Of course the housing program must have limits, so that the other residents are not compromised by our sons' behavior. This is a process. At some point, we hope our sons will get that the consequences to them for their short-term self-indulgence are not worth it. Meanwhile, there is gratitude that he will be treated by PACT. I have learned that there are always more chances. The first opportunity is not necessarily the best. In any event, this is neither here or there. Your son has decided by his actions that this set up was not his path to take. I find myself in the same situation as are you. My heart is in my mouth, waiting for my son to do the right thing. Or not. In the meantime I will learn how not to destroy myself in the process. And to have the fullest life that I can. I hope you keep posting. So we can help each other. Take care. COPA [/QUOTE]
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