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How do I get past waking up every morning filled with worry?
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 481358" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>OH NO!!! You mean you are HUMAN??? I am really not making light of this, just here to say I would be shocked if anyone didn't feel this at some point. The roller coaster that is always talked about??... this is the down part for sure. And the not knowing is about the worst place to be. I do believe you are handling it as well as anyone could or should. You are continuing to find help, you are waking and putting one foot in front of the other, and sometimes not doing that maybe, just resting when you need to. All of it is OK. Your family has been through a big stress and in my experience it can make us totally exhausted and at times unable to see the big picture. All the things you hate, they are legitimate issues. Parents want to take burdens off their children. It feels horrible not to have family and friends understand. And for all those who tell you that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, they may be right and well-intentioned, but they probably have no clue or are on the other side of things and have forgotten how it doesn't feel that way at times. However, for now, they are right, you ARE doing it and there is not a "right" way as long as you are doing anything toward finding answers. You are not alone in this. And it may seem simplistic to say this, there are bright moments, as you have stated a couple of times... she is in there, in my humble opinion. </p><p></p><p>keep sharing, it is one way to help cope, dont worry about it being a downer moment, that is real life. Ups and downs. You have a right to your feelings. Luv and Hugs, Dee (Buddy)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 481358, member: 12886"] OH NO!!! You mean you are HUMAN??? I am really not making light of this, just here to say I would be shocked if anyone didn't feel this at some point. The roller coaster that is always talked about??... this is the down part for sure. And the not knowing is about the worst place to be. I do believe you are handling it as well as anyone could or should. You are continuing to find help, you are waking and putting one foot in front of the other, and sometimes not doing that maybe, just resting when you need to. All of it is OK. Your family has been through a big stress and in my experience it can make us totally exhausted and at times unable to see the big picture. All the things you hate, they are legitimate issues. Parents want to take burdens off their children. It feels horrible not to have family and friends understand. And for all those who tell you that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, they may be right and well-intentioned, but they probably have no clue or are on the other side of things and have forgotten how it doesn't feel that way at times. However, for now, they are right, you ARE doing it and there is not a "right" way as long as you are doing anything toward finding answers. You are not alone in this. And it may seem simplistic to say this, there are bright moments, as you have stated a couple of times... she is in there, in my humble opinion. keep sharing, it is one way to help cope, dont worry about it being a downer moment, that is real life. Ups and downs. You have a right to your feelings. Luv and Hugs, Dee (Buddy) [/QUOTE]
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