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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 107241" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>The tears are shedding here. What a wonderful, caring husband you have. I haven't said anything but I think he's right. Don't have the all out over the top Christmas. Just a have a nice, quiet one, maybe with one small gift for each of you. Yes, the odds are that Dude will mess it up somehow but don't do it for him. Do it for you and husband, because you will know you tried, you showed Dude your love regardless of his behavior.</p><p></p><p>I know this is hard for you. We're both big Christmas people, so I understand how hard giving it up is. How much that hurts. You did what you felt you had to to do to survive this holiday. Well, now you have a chance to make it more of what Christmas is -- not the decorations or the gifts, but the caring, the loving, the thanks to Jesus, family. So, go for the kinder, gentler Christmas. It may be just the antidote you need this year.</p><p></p><p>No matter what, we'll all stand behind you and hold your hand. If you truly can't take Christmas this year, even I understand that one. We're here with shoulders, arms, hands and several boxes of Kleenex.</p><p></p><p>So, HO HO HO HO to you, dear one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 107241, member: 3626"] The tears are shedding here. What a wonderful, caring husband you have. I haven't said anything but I think he's right. Don't have the all out over the top Christmas. Just a have a nice, quiet one, maybe with one small gift for each of you. Yes, the odds are that Dude will mess it up somehow but don't do it for him. Do it for you and husband, because you will know you tried, you showed Dude your love regardless of his behavior. I know this is hard for you. We're both big Christmas people, so I understand how hard giving it up is. How much that hurts. You did what you felt you had to to do to survive this holiday. Well, now you have a chance to make it more of what Christmas is -- not the decorations or the gifts, but the caring, the loving, the thanks to Jesus, family. So, go for the kinder, gentler Christmas. It may be just the antidote you need this year. No matter what, we'll all stand behind you and hold your hand. If you truly can't take Christmas this year, even I understand that one. We're here with shoulders, arms, hands and several boxes of Kleenex. So, HO HO HO HO to you, dear one. [/QUOTE]
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