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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 172634" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>For a change, your illness might be used to your advantage. Just tell her that hugs, touching in general hurt. Docs don't know why this is, it just is. That should at least take care of that problem.</p><p> </p><p>As to the party, I'd be honest. You can't afford it right now and he had the surprise party. So, no real party for his b'day, just some family and HIS friends gathering but that's it. You won't be feeding any of them other than the cake.</p><p> </p><p>I really feel for people who are so desparate for friends they hang on to anyone who is nice to them. Their world must be so incredibly small and lonely. Like you, they **** me right in. Sooner or later though, I just lose it and start growling every time they open their mouths. Not nice but they **** me dry and I'm cranky (very) when that happens. </p><p> </p><p>No advice as to how to get out of the relationship. As you said, you have to factor in D and his girlfriend. Maybe if she saw the bratty side of you -- you know, the one I get to see (without the humor) -- she'll decide she doesn't want you as a friend? It's a tough situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 172634, member: 3626"] For a change, your illness might be used to your advantage. Just tell her that hugs, touching in general hurt. Docs don't know why this is, it just is. That should at least take care of that problem. As to the party, I'd be honest. You can't afford it right now and he had the surprise party. So, no real party for his b'day, just some family and HIS friends gathering but that's it. You won't be feeding any of them other than the cake. I really feel for people who are so desparate for friends they hang on to anyone who is nice to them. Their world must be so incredibly small and lonely. Like you, they **** me right in. Sooner or later though, I just lose it and start growling every time they open their mouths. Not nice but they **** me dry and I'm cranky (very) when that happens. No advice as to how to get out of the relationship. As you said, you have to factor in D and his girlfriend. Maybe if she saw the bratty side of you -- you know, the one I get to see (without the humor) -- she'll decide she doesn't want you as a friend? It's a tough situation. [/QUOTE]
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