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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 490555" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I think you have said before that he wasnt extremely emotionally lovey dovey before all this happened so I think it is unrealistic to expect that he is suddenly going to become Don Juan now. He probably has no clue how. I live with one who thinks if he picks me flowers out of the field in front of house, that is a huge gesture. I take it as if they are roses. They die within a day...lol. Mine thinks I will be thrilled with a set of deer antlers on the wall as a gift. Yeah thanks honey. </p><p></p><p>I agree with those that say you have to do things that make you happy at this point. You have said that he has done all you have asked of him to give up the computer stuff so I would assume that is gone. If he is not giving you anymore reason to think he is still active in this or wanting this type activity, then you have to decide if you can live with it. If it is eating at you so much that you are so unhappy that he cannot meet your needs, and apparently he is not going to, you have some decisions to make.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 490555, member: 1514"] I think you have said before that he wasnt extremely emotionally lovey dovey before all this happened so I think it is unrealistic to expect that he is suddenly going to become Don Juan now. He probably has no clue how. I live with one who thinks if he picks me flowers out of the field in front of house, that is a huge gesture. I take it as if they are roses. They die within a day...lol. Mine thinks I will be thrilled with a set of deer antlers on the wall as a gift. Yeah thanks honey. I agree with those that say you have to do things that make you happy at this point. You have said that he has done all you have asked of him to give up the computer stuff so I would assume that is gone. If he is not giving you anymore reason to think he is still active in this or wanting this type activity, then you have to decide if you can live with it. If it is eating at you so much that you are so unhappy that he cannot meet your needs, and apparently he is not going to, you have some decisions to make. [/QUOTE]
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