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<blockquote data-quote="muttmeister" data-source="post: 490592" data-attributes="member: 135"><p>Well, like it or not, it seems to me you have two choices. You can take the bull by the horns and DO SOMETHING about the situation or you can leave it as it is. Obviously, he isn't gong to do anything so it's up to you.</p><p> </p><p>Right now, with Christmas and your feelings about it, may not be the perfect time to start making BIG decisions but once we get through the holidays, if I were you (that's what you asked) I would sit down and do some real soul searching. If you have somebody you trust (a friend, a relative, a pastor, a counselor) it might help to talk to them but, in the end, YOU are the one who is going to have to make a decision and live with it.</p><p></p><p>You have only one life. This is it. You can either be miserable in the situation you are in, find a way to make that situation tolerable, or get out of it. What you choose is up to you but whatever you choose, there will be a way to make it happen.</p><p></p><p>I was in a miserable marriage. He was cheating. I divorced him while I had two difficult children, ages 1 and 4. It was not really an easy life but it was better than if I had stayed with him. You deserve better than he is giving you right now.</p><p></p><p>I know life isn't easy right now but whatever you decide to do, we here are on your side and will be pulling for you. </p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="muttmeister, post: 490592, member: 135"] Well, like it or not, it seems to me you have two choices. You can take the bull by the horns and DO SOMETHING about the situation or you can leave it as it is. Obviously, he isn't gong to do anything so it's up to you. Right now, with Christmas and your feelings about it, may not be the perfect time to start making BIG decisions but once we get through the holidays, if I were you (that's what you asked) I would sit down and do some real soul searching. If you have somebody you trust (a friend, a relative, a pastor, a counselor) it might help to talk to them but, in the end, YOU are the one who is going to have to make a decision and live with it. You have only one life. This is it. You can either be miserable in the situation you are in, find a way to make that situation tolerable, or get out of it. What you choose is up to you but whatever you choose, there will be a way to make it happen. I was in a miserable marriage. He was cheating. I divorced him while I had two difficult children, ages 1 and 4. It was not really an easy life but it was better than if I had stayed with him. You deserve better than he is giving you right now. I know life isn't easy right now but whatever you decide to do, we here are on your side and will be pulling for you. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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