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<blockquote data-quote="carolanne" data-source="post: 146318" data-attributes="member: 1904"><p>I had a call from the doctor who is in charge of difficult child's care right now. She is refusing to eat unless they lift the visit restrictions for toadboy....sigh....she hasn't eaten since yesterday at breakfast when they told her about him only getting half an hour a day. He said if she keeps refusing to eat, they will strap her down and put an iv and feeding tube in....guess when she heard that she threw the food tray at the wall.</p><p></p><p>It's going to be a long long road with this girl. The doctor is concerned about the relationship, says it's extremely unhealthy and very dangerous mentally. He isn't sure what power this toad has over her but he says it's quite a grip right now.</p><p></p><p>She will starts medications tomorrow for anxiety and is being put into anger management where she will learn that all her choices are just that...hers not mine or anyone else. I guess she spent an hour spewing filth about me....lots of stories that the doctor said he could pull records on and point out that they were false....</p><p></p><p>I am to go see her tomorrow morning for a very brief visit. It was suggested that I bring a small bag with some socks and things....little treats and some quarters for the phone. The phone is monitored and the doctor said he is very curious to see and hear what kind of conversation there will be when she calls toadboy....kinda feels like setting up difficult child but they need to know how deep his hold on her is.</p><p></p><p>The other thing they were able to tell me is that toadboy has been in and out of the ward himself over the last couple of years. Seems that when his parents got tired of taking care of him, they placed him there for 30 days at a time. He's been shunted between home, the hospital, a group home and the homeless shelter.....what a life....</p><p></p><p>I am off to the fabric store....going to start working on a quilt....need to do for me today...</p><p></p><p>thanks a million gazillion times over for the support ladies....you'll never know how much it means to me or how it's helped me get through those quiet deadly hours in the middle of the night<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Carolanne</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="carolanne, post: 146318, member: 1904"] I had a call from the doctor who is in charge of difficult child's care right now. She is refusing to eat unless they lift the visit restrictions for toadboy....sigh....she hasn't eaten since yesterday at breakfast when they told her about him only getting half an hour a day. He said if she keeps refusing to eat, they will strap her down and put an iv and feeding tube in....guess when she heard that she threw the food tray at the wall. It's going to be a long long road with this girl. The doctor is concerned about the relationship, says it's extremely unhealthy and very dangerous mentally. He isn't sure what power this toad has over her but he says it's quite a grip right now. She will starts medications tomorrow for anxiety and is being put into anger management where she will learn that all her choices are just that...hers not mine or anyone else. I guess she spent an hour spewing filth about me....lots of stories that the doctor said he could pull records on and point out that they were false.... I am to go see her tomorrow morning for a very brief visit. It was suggested that I bring a small bag with some socks and things....little treats and some quarters for the phone. The phone is monitored and the doctor said he is very curious to see and hear what kind of conversation there will be when she calls toadboy....kinda feels like setting up difficult child but they need to know how deep his hold on her is. The other thing they were able to tell me is that toadboy has been in and out of the ward himself over the last couple of years. Seems that when his parents got tired of taking care of him, they placed him there for 30 days at a time. He's been shunted between home, the hospital, a group home and the homeless shelter.....what a life.... I am off to the fabric store....going to start working on a quilt....need to do for me today... thanks a million gazillion times over for the support ladies....you'll never know how much it means to me or how it's helped me get through those quiet deadly hours in the middle of the night:):):) Carolanne [/QUOTE]
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