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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 244752" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I'm up on my tiptoes with my arm stretched way up waving around going "</p><p>Ohhhh Ohhhh Ohhhh!"</p><p> </p><p>At 22 Travis still does not "get" this boundary. He is 90 percent better than he used to be. But he does not understand that just because it is in the home doesn't mean it's free for him to use/borrow/take just because he wants/needs it.</p><p> </p><p>For him this is a personal space thing he doesn't get, just like when he walks behind you and walks all over your heels. Or when he talks to you he is nose to nose unless you push him back a bit. Not malicious. Not entitlement. Hard to explain, but we've had long discussions with both neuros and Occupational Therapist (OT) over it.</p><p> </p><p>But in my opinion, Travis still has to somehow get he shouldn't do it. So, anything he takes/borrows that isn't his, he has to replace. Doesn't matter if it's food or a personal object.</p><p> </p><p>Nichole went thru a period of "helping herself". </p><p> </p><p>My biggest difficult child (husband) is my biggest problem. Which is why my student loan refund is safely tucked into the pocket of my robe while I'm sitting at my desk typing this. It hasn't left my sight since I cashed the check a week ago. </p><p> </p><p>Does that answer you question?? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 244752, member: 84"] I'm up on my tiptoes with my arm stretched way up waving around going " Ohhhh Ohhhh Ohhhh!" At 22 Travis still does not "get" this boundary. He is 90 percent better than he used to be. But he does not understand that just because it is in the home doesn't mean it's free for him to use/borrow/take just because he wants/needs it. For him this is a personal space thing he doesn't get, just like when he walks behind you and walks all over your heels. Or when he talks to you he is nose to nose unless you push him back a bit. Not malicious. Not entitlement. Hard to explain, but we've had long discussions with both neuros and Occupational Therapist (OT) over it. But in my opinion, Travis still has to somehow get he shouldn't do it. So, anything he takes/borrows that isn't his, he has to replace. Doesn't matter if it's food or a personal object. Nichole went thru a period of "helping herself". My biggest difficult child (husband) is my biggest problem. Which is why my student loan refund is safely tucked into the pocket of my robe while I'm sitting at my desk typing this. It hasn't left my sight since I cashed the check a week ago. Does that answer you question?? :rofl: [/QUOTE]
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