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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 253888" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>So, I make my nightly call to D. This is only day 4 <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /> by the way.</p><p> </p><p>He starts off telling me how roomie stole his MP3 player today. The kid claimed his mom sent it to him. D confronted him, staff took them in a room together, and D showed them the photos he had stored in there that were OBVIOUSLY not roomie's, cuz they were of D and us LOL!</p><p> </p><p>I hear staff screaming at D from across the room about talking about other people. I'm thinking to myself, ok...whatever.</p><p> </p><p>Ask him how his day was. He says good, a staff lady, Miss M or something or other, took him to the zoo. This staff guy must have heard D tell me and heard Miss M's name and, again, starts yelling from across the room. I have this thought running through my mind, like ***?</p><p> </p><p>He tells me he fed the rabbits, held them, etc. I'm like, ok, cool!</p><p> </p><p>So, I ask him if he's been sleeping, BECAUSE, since night 1, roomie has some type of continuing Intermittent Explosive Disorder throughout the evening, and D cannot sleep. First night he got 2 hrs. 2nd night, 3 hours. He's weepy, exhausted, and has had a migraine the last 2 nights. He tells me that roomie is making noise, all night long, and the phone goes dead.</p><p> </p><p>I can't get back through to residence. I immediately called therapist and left message with him. </p><p> </p><p>Now, I can understand if he's telling me about other kids behaviors. Not only do I not care, it's not appropriate, and I'd understand getting a concerning call if this was an issue. But this concerns MY SON, his SLEEP, which leads to his well being. </p><p> </p><p>Am I overreacting? Is this typical for Residential Treatment Facility (RTF)? Because, I'm sitting here thinking, if my son cannot express ANY concerns to me - what are THEY hiding? Am I paranoid?</p><p> </p><p>I'm angry atm. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 253888, member: 2737"] So, I make my nightly call to D. This is only day 4 :anxious: by the way. He starts off telling me how roomie stole his MP3 player today. The kid claimed his mom sent it to him. D confronted him, staff took them in a room together, and D showed them the photos he had stored in there that were OBVIOUSLY not roomie's, cuz they were of D and us LOL! I hear staff screaming at D from across the room about talking about other people. I'm thinking to myself, ok...whatever. Ask him how his day was. He says good, a staff lady, Miss M or something or other, took him to the zoo. This staff guy must have heard D tell me and heard Miss M's name and, again, starts yelling from across the room. I have this thought running through my mind, like ***? He tells me he fed the rabbits, held them, etc. I'm like, ok, cool! So, I ask him if he's been sleeping, BECAUSE, since night 1, roomie has some type of continuing Intermittent Explosive Disorder throughout the evening, and D cannot sleep. First night he got 2 hrs. 2nd night, 3 hours. He's weepy, exhausted, and has had a migraine the last 2 nights. He tells me that roomie is making noise, all night long, and the phone goes dead. I can't get back through to residence. I immediately called therapist and left message with him. Now, I can understand if he's telling me about other kids behaviors. Not only do I not care, it's not appropriate, and I'd understand getting a concerning call if this was an issue. But this concerns MY SON, his SLEEP, which leads to his well being. Am I overreacting? Is this typical for Residential Treatment Facility (RTF)? Because, I'm sitting here thinking, if my son cannot express ANY concerns to me - what are THEY hiding? Am I paranoid? I'm angry atm. :angry: [/QUOTE]
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