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<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 112829" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>thanks again everyone. I did have the thought I didnt express here, one angle I am looking at is that I do not know this "sponsor" background... how long is he recovered etc... I know my son is talking to one in there that is 21 yrs recovered and my son says he admires the person the guy is, he can relate to him and he has him opening up. So it was looking like that would be a good sponsor for him. I was hoping he would keep with that guy since he is learning from him, as he put it. So part of my anger is if they ruin that and what if this guy isn't as good a match for my son? I dont think his sponsor should be someone so close to the family. Will he open up, ya know. I may be wrong, but it is my reservation without knowing more.</p><p></p><p>I still cant agree that she is helping. I wish I could explain they way she is, but she has caused me much much heart ache and agravation regarding my son, and it seems some people do not change their stripes. Trust me if she was so into helping, she would be calling me first of.</p><p></p><p>I have work to do to get my head together, for sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 112829, member: 4450"] thanks again everyone. I did have the thought I didnt express here, one angle I am looking at is that I do not know this "sponsor" background... how long is he recovered etc... I know my son is talking to one in there that is 21 yrs recovered and my son says he admires the person the guy is, he can relate to him and he has him opening up. So it was looking like that would be a good sponsor for him. I was hoping he would keep with that guy since he is learning from him, as he put it. So part of my anger is if they ruin that and what if this guy isn't as good a match for my son? I dont think his sponsor should be someone so close to the family. Will he open up, ya know. I may be wrong, but it is my reservation without knowing more. I still cant agree that she is helping. I wish I could explain they way she is, but she has caused me much much heart ache and agravation regarding my son, and it seems some people do not change their stripes. Trust me if she was so into helping, she would be calling me first of. I have work to do to get my head together, for sure. [/QUOTE]
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