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How to stay out of his business???
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 379381" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>It's easy to get a false sense of security when things are going better. I find myself on edge, waiting for the next crisis to occur. I think that some minimal "nudging" is ok, i.e. reminder of the court date, but once, and you're done. I think that's perfectly fine. But, it's a fine line with a difficult child. The key is to pay attention to your own feelings about it.. if you start to feel anxious and your thinking turns to "omg he's going to screw up if I don't remind him to do this," it's probably time to back off a bit and practice more detachment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 379381, member: 1157"] It's easy to get a false sense of security when things are going better. I find myself on edge, waiting for the next crisis to occur. I think that some minimal "nudging" is ok, i.e. reminder of the court date, but once, and you're done. I think that's perfectly fine. But, it's a fine line with a difficult child. The key is to pay attention to your own feelings about it.. if you start to feel anxious and your thinking turns to "omg he's going to screw up if I don't remind him to do this," it's probably time to back off a bit and practice more detachment. [/QUOTE]
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