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Well, I really really tried not coming back on here but I cant help it- You all are my help. Now, my neighbor called ( nothing new been complaining but now comments that something has to be done)my grandfather to call me and ask what is going on, what is wrong they hear my son screaming bloody murder. )( hes had several mini tantrums today) My son screams like he's being tortured and really can be heard down the block. Of course so can the noise from him kicking in his door, trashing his room. I yelled out the kitchen door" my son has mental disorders and Im trying to get help you all know that" Yes.. my neighbors have heard enough of him now. My friend came at that time to go to the store with us because theres no way could I handle him alone in there and low and behold he acted up.. she heard him several isles away and rushed over to help me. Everyone stared again I talked to her about the pills and EEg and she said "you know he's this way with or without the pills" but I said "yes, but I think hes worse!" Telling us to walk in front of behind.. throwing himself on floor saying his sister or I did it is not new.. but even more so and hes not afraid to do it in public..like hes more and more comfortable to do it in public.
Well, we got home and of course my son was getting ready to cook and he scratched his behind, I nicely said wash your hands, he angrily did. Started to cook and scratched it again, so I said nicely again to wash his hands he blew ran in room. Kick, scream etc..Can last 5 minutes or an hour...
.....Then Calm...
Now, his food ready to check in oven and he says he wants to do it I said hes not old enough and he demand he do it ran in room slammed door scream bloody murder shutup .. etc...
I wonder if any medications will ever work.. so far everything Im reading the side effects can cause more aggression I know, trial and error with medications...
I have the book you all suggested read it twice .. Im trying now I gotta get another one to read it but how do I take back control... how do I do this now he's getting worse? The neighbors will call police Im sure.. they are fed up hearing it day and night - rare days nothing. I love my son and I need to find a way. He really does control us and part of that is because he knows I am trying to keep things calm for my dad , so to keep calm for my dad, I dont punish as much as I should. His favorite thing is outside but if I take that way I am really punishing myself and the rest because thats my way to get his energy down ( although pills knocked down at least half of it) plus when I have taken it away... omg is the house shaking and breaking! His room Im clearing out, No Wii or Tv, his door I have to leave or he will pick on our doors so better his then ours. Usual punishments dont work with him, and most time, no matter what we do, after punishment ( twice he was on it two weeks incl no outside) and he went right back and did the same thing!!!!
Sorry all... I know Im just venting the same ol things. Hope your Thanksgiving is a great one!!! Im gonna do something different and post a couple recipes soon...( food is still my downfall)
Well, we got home and of course my son was getting ready to cook and he scratched his behind, I nicely said wash your hands, he angrily did. Started to cook and scratched it again, so I said nicely again to wash his hands he blew ran in room. Kick, scream etc..Can last 5 minutes or an hour...
.....Then Calm...
Now, his food ready to check in oven and he says he wants to do it I said hes not old enough and he demand he do it ran in room slammed door scream bloody murder shutup .. etc...
I wonder if any medications will ever work.. so far everything Im reading the side effects can cause more aggression I know, trial and error with medications...
I have the book you all suggested read it twice .. Im trying now I gotta get another one to read it but how do I take back control... how do I do this now he's getting worse? The neighbors will call police Im sure.. they are fed up hearing it day and night - rare days nothing. I love my son and I need to find a way. He really does control us and part of that is because he knows I am trying to keep things calm for my dad , so to keep calm for my dad, I dont punish as much as I should. His favorite thing is outside but if I take that way I am really punishing myself and the rest because thats my way to get his energy down ( although pills knocked down at least half of it) plus when I have taken it away... omg is the house shaking and breaking! His room Im clearing out, No Wii or Tv, his door I have to leave or he will pick on our doors so better his then ours. Usual punishments dont work with him, and most time, no matter what we do, after punishment ( twice he was on it two weeks incl no outside) and he went right back and did the same thing!!!!
Sorry all... I know Im just venting the same ol things. Hope your Thanksgiving is a great one!!! Im gonna do something different and post a couple recipes soon...( food is still my downfall)