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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 517302"><p>That is a hard lesson I am trying to teach both of mine. Nothing in life is ever going to be "fair" 100% of the time and they are allowed to have THEIR things. As the others have said, that is V's swing, not the family swing. They can use it when he's not. Period. One thing I would caution is that when one of the others are in the swing and V wants to go in it, DON'T say to them "this is V's swing and he wants it so you need to get out". That WILL set a precendent for V to use against his siblings. Say something like "okay, time's up. Why don't you and I....." That way he doesn't get additional "power". Know what I mean??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 517302"] That is a hard lesson I am trying to teach both of mine. Nothing in life is ever going to be "fair" 100% of the time and they are allowed to have THEIR things. As the others have said, that is V's swing, not the family swing. They can use it when he's not. Period. One thing I would caution is that when one of the others are in the swing and V wants to go in it, DON'T say to them "this is V's swing and he wants it so you need to get out". That WILL set a precendent for V to use against his siblings. Say something like "okay, time's up. Why don't you and I....." That way he doesn't get additional "power". Know what I mean?? [/QUOTE]
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