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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 517366" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Midwest, to answer a few of your questions.</p><p>Yes, husband is bio dad. I don't believe he is "rigid", but kind of has a different take on things. He does see the issues and agrees with the therapies. We actually really never fight over wether V has issues or not. But he is definetly not as active in helping him as I am. </p><p>husband grew up on a farm among 8 siblings. He believes in hard work being the answer to every things. husband will work V and he will be fine. His idea is: hard work, strong guidance (not physical discipline although he will talk like that, but never implement it) and growing up.</p><p>I'm the one seeking all the professionals and iniating things at home.</p><p>husband had lots of issues growing up and he still does not know what was wrong. Just that he could not understand people around him until he finally taught himself how to lip read at around 8 years old. Lots of learning issues despite being intelligent. To this days, reading is really hard for husband.</p><p>I suppose his logic is: "if I could overcome my challenges without any help, then V will be just fine. We should not worry and just give him time to grow up".</p><p>In a way, husband is being very optimistic about V.</p><p>But he also supports the application to the Autism program. He even took the time to fill out the Father's questionaire (really hard for husband because of his reading issues).</p><p>Maybe he just has faith and is more relaxed about it all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 517366, member: 11847"] Midwest, to answer a few of your questions. Yes, husband is bio dad. I don't believe he is "rigid", but kind of has a different take on things. He does see the issues and agrees with the therapies. We actually really never fight over wether V has issues or not. But he is definetly not as active in helping him as I am. husband grew up on a farm among 8 siblings. He believes in hard work being the answer to every things. husband will work V and he will be fine. His idea is: hard work, strong guidance (not physical discipline although he will talk like that, but never implement it) and growing up. I'm the one seeking all the professionals and iniating things at home. husband had lots of issues growing up and he still does not know what was wrong. Just that he could not understand people around him until he finally taught himself how to lip read at around 8 years old. Lots of learning issues despite being intelligent. To this days, reading is really hard for husband. I suppose his logic is: "if I could overcome my challenges without any help, then V will be just fine. We should not worry and just give him time to grow up". In a way, husband is being very optimistic about V. But he also supports the application to the Autism program. He even took the time to fill out the Father's questionaire (really hard for husband because of his reading issues). Maybe he just has faith and is more relaxed about it all. [/QUOTE]
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