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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 764148" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I didn't know about the different drugs either, seems like there's so many for them to choose. There is so little we have power over. I had my son in so many programs and I hope one day he will get tired of his life style.</p><p></p><p>I had really thought last month, his birthday, after spending the weekend Baker Acted in a behavioral center he was ready for help. They don't really treat the addicts, just keep them from harming themselves for the weekend.</p><p></p><p>He found the sober house and fed me all these lies. I believed him, AGAIN, he only stayed a few days.</p><p></p><p>I get jerked back into his current drama and have to start my detachment all over. I also get depressed. These are our children, we love them, that fact never changes.</p><p></p><p>I blamed myself for all of his failings. It doesn't matter if we were not perfect parents. I don't know one! My son used my guilt to his advantage as most of them do, lol.</p><p></p><p>Learn to detach and accept you have zero power to change them. It's the most difficult lesson I have had to learn!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 764148, member: 13558"] I didn't know about the different drugs either, seems like there's so many for them to choose. There is so little we have power over. I had my son in so many programs and I hope one day he will get tired of his life style. I had really thought last month, his birthday, after spending the weekend Baker Acted in a behavioral center he was ready for help. They don't really treat the addicts, just keep them from harming themselves for the weekend. He found the sober house and fed me all these lies. I believed him, AGAIN, he only stayed a few days. I get jerked back into his current drama and have to start my detachment all over. I also get depressed. These are our children, we love them, that fact never changes. I blamed myself for all of his failings. It doesn't matter if we were not perfect parents. I don't know one! My son used my guilt to his advantage as most of them do, lol. Learn to detach and accept you have zero power to change them. It's the most difficult lesson I have had to learn! [/QUOTE]
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