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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765248" data-attributes="member: 32799"><p>Oh isn’t this the truth! <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="😔" title="Pensive face :pensive:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f614.png" data-shortname=":pensive:" /> I liken it to 2 steps forward, 3 back. When on my better days, full of strength and I got this attitude but then, next day or week/month, always that crash.</p><p></p><p>Hello Ithurtz, I hope the wonderful advice from all will help you in the days ahead. Be strong and as Copa mentioned…you need to see real progress that he wants to change. Not just a few days and promises that this will be it if you could only give me????? We are enablers and it takes a lot to admit that but once we do we need to take steps and stop doing it. It’s going to hurt, he may say the very worst things to you and try to manipulate your sensitive heart. Direct him to AA or NA instead of handing out those $$$$ </p><p></p><p>I encourage you to read the experiences also of parents like Copa who bought their children homes, bought them cars as you have, spent their whole life savings on these children who hold their hands out for even more still. Anything WE do will not help as it’s up to them to want that change. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765248, member: 32799"] Oh isn’t this the truth! 😔 I liken it to 2 steps forward, 3 back. When on my better days, full of strength and I got this attitude but then, next day or week/month, always that crash. Hello Ithurtz, I hope the wonderful advice from all will help you in the days ahead. Be strong and as Copa mentioned…you need to see real progress that he wants to change. Not just a few days and promises that this will be it if you could only give me????? We are enablers and it takes a lot to admit that but once we do we need to take steps and stop doing it. It’s going to hurt, he may say the very worst things to you and try to manipulate your sensitive heart. Direct him to AA or NA instead of handing out those $$$$ I encourage you to read the experiences also of parents like Copa who bought their children homes, bought them cars as you have, spent their whole life savings on these children who hold their hands out for even more still. Anything WE do will not help as it’s up to them to want that change. 🤗 [/QUOTE]
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