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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 396363" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I dont see anything odd at all about him seeing his ex and his kids at her house along with her relatives on Xmas eve to be honest. They were married right? Or at least together for a period of time of some sort. They did make kids together. They had some sort of bond.</p><p></p><p>Cory (and Tony and I) maintain a relatively good relationship with Keyana's maternal side of the family. He goes to her birthday parties at their house. He actually really likes Keyana's step-father. </p><p></p><p>My step-sister Teri had the best divorce I have ever seen. I hold it up as the model for how a divorce with child custody should be handled. </p><p></p><p>They divorced when E was still in day care/pre-school. Probably about 4 years old. They both had good jobs but hers was the better job and E was in a day care at her work. However, she couldnt just take off work every time he was sick so what they did was they compromised and each took 1/2 a sick day. Worked out perfectly. </p><p></p><p>They were each at all his games as he grew up. He always knew that his mom and dad were there for him. When Teri re-married, his Dad was invited to the wedding at E's request. He came for E. They shared custody every other weekend and every Wednesday night. If E wanted more, it was allowed. If anyone needed to change, no problems. When Teri remarried, her new husband was a single dad too so E got a brother one year older. They arranged custody weekends so that both boys were at their houses the same weekends and no one argued about it. </p><p></p><p>Are these kids perfect? Well not completely but they are pretty darned close. And the younger brother to these two is about the best little boy I have ever laid eyes on. </p><p></p><p>Im trying to say...Teri and her Ex always put on a good face and acted nice for the kids because they are who count.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 396363, member: 1514"] I dont see anything odd at all about him seeing his ex and his kids at her house along with her relatives on Xmas eve to be honest. They were married right? Or at least together for a period of time of some sort. They did make kids together. They had some sort of bond. Cory (and Tony and I) maintain a relatively good relationship with Keyana's maternal side of the family. He goes to her birthday parties at their house. He actually really likes Keyana's step-father. My step-sister Teri had the best divorce I have ever seen. I hold it up as the model for how a divorce with child custody should be handled. They divorced when E was still in day care/pre-school. Probably about 4 years old. They both had good jobs but hers was the better job and E was in a day care at her work. However, she couldnt just take off work every time he was sick so what they did was they compromised and each took 1/2 a sick day. Worked out perfectly. They were each at all his games as he grew up. He always knew that his mom and dad were there for him. When Teri re-married, his Dad was invited to the wedding at E's request. He came for E. They shared custody every other weekend and every Wednesday night. If E wanted more, it was allowed. If anyone needed to change, no problems. When Teri remarried, her new husband was a single dad too so E got a brother one year older. They arranged custody weekends so that both boys were at their houses the same weekends and no one argued about it. Are these kids perfect? Well not completely but they are pretty darned close. And the younger brother to these two is about the best little boy I have ever laid eyes on. Im trying to say...Teri and her Ex always put on a good face and acted nice for the kids because they are who count. [/QUOTE]
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