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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 131086" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Ah honey, you've just got it ALL going on! </p><p> </p><p>First: big hugs. You need a little bit of a break. </p><p> </p><p>Second: what's this cr*p of the school calling to have you come get difficult child everytime there's an issue? I went through this with difficult child 3 and it made my life a living he!!, she learned that if she didn't feel like being there she could act up, and husband was on the "we're getting a lawyer" kick, every minute of every day!</p><p> </p><p>I know what it is to be on the "a divorce might be better than this" tightrope. It svcks! Eventually, it came down to him threatening to leave and me opening the door. I think it made him scared (which was NOT the intention), but I had had enough. I was willing to go it alone rather than put up with the bull. I think I got a little stronger as a result. We worked it out, but it still is a lot of work!</p><p> </p><p>I know this is a stab in the dark, but any chance at marriage counseling? </p><p> </p><p>Have you taken a real look at your current relationship vs. past relationships? Make sure that he's not showing the control issues that you've dealt with in the past. That would be frightening!</p><p> </p><p>Keep posting...it's got to make you feel a little better just getting this stuff off your chest! And it's a lot of stuff!!! </p><p> </p><p>I know in my first response I said I admired your ex for making the changes; I respect you soooo much more for enduring what you have!!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 131086, member: 3814"] Ah honey, you've just got it ALL going on! First: big hugs. You need a little bit of a break. Second: what's this cr*p of the school calling to have you come get difficult child everytime there's an issue? I went through this with difficult child 3 and it made my life a living he!!, she learned that if she didn't feel like being there she could act up, and husband was on the "we're getting a lawyer" kick, every minute of every day! I know what it is to be on the "a divorce might be better than this" tightrope. It svcks! Eventually, it came down to him threatening to leave and me opening the door. I think it made him scared (which was NOT the intention), but I had had enough. I was willing to go it alone rather than put up with the bull. I think I got a little stronger as a result. We worked it out, but it still is a lot of work! I know this is a stab in the dark, but any chance at marriage counseling? Have you taken a real look at your current relationship vs. past relationships? Make sure that he's not showing the control issues that you've dealt with in the past. That would be frightening! Keep posting...it's got to make you feel a little better just getting this stuff off your chest! And it's a lot of stuff!!! I know in my first response I said I admired your ex for making the changes; I respect you soooo much more for enduring what you have!! Beth [/QUOTE]
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