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<blockquote data-quote="ShakespeareMamaX" data-source="post: 131413" data-attributes="member: 3861"><p>He has stated this, Marguerite. But his jealously is overcoming the priorities of his family. I would have loved for this marriage to work. It's going to end, though. We discussed where we would be living (our house is being foreclosed on. I've lost a lot of money having to miss so much work for everyone's appts. He has turned a blind eye on this (and tried to prevent me from doing anything by erasing all the msgs from the agent and atty and tossing all the mail) and I've been doing everything in my power to prevent it (giving everyone my cell# for one), including keeping the house as spotless as i can, using all of MY savings on an atty, getting an agent and setting up all the showings while husband is at work. I told him our deadline to be out was 17 March (lucky day, huh?). Of COURSE he wouldn't know this, having paid no attention to the situation that I was trying to fix. He got mad and I told him we need to find a new place, asap. I told him about this little place that's only $600 a month that wouldn't require a credit check. He demanded we go to one specific town and he's looking at places for $1100! I'm trying to explain that we CAN NOT do that and we're at the end of our rope. He stuck to his guns. I told him "fine, but if there's nothing set up by the 17th, I'm going to the $600 apt by myself". </p><p></p><p>I swear, it's one thing after another.</p><p></p><p>I stop smoking. He pressures me to start back up. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/cigarsmoker.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":cigarsmoker:" title="cigar smoker :cigarsmoker:" data-shortname=":cigarsmoker:" /></p><p></p><p>I stop eating meat. He insults me. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/oktoberfest.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":oktoberfest:" title="oktoberfest :oktoberfest:" data-shortname=":oktoberfest:" /></p><p></p><p>I cook for everyone. He'll say he's not hungry, then, go to Taco Bell a half hour, later. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/morecrackers.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":morecrackers:" title="morecrackers :morecrackers:" data-shortname=":morecrackers:" /></p><p></p><p>I say I want to get a second job to make up for the money I'm missing out on. He shoots me down and says I can't do it. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/talkhand.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":talkhand:" title="talkhand :talkhand:" data-shortname=":talkhand:" /></p><p></p><p>I say I want to fix up the house so we can sell it (myself). Again, he shoots me down saying I can't/won't do it. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/nono.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":nono:" title="nono :nono:" data-shortname=":nono:" /></p><p></p><p>I start learning car mechanics to fix my own car so I would stop "bothering" him. He gets mad, saying he could have done it. Mind you, he let me go months driving myself and the kids around with barely any working brakes claiming "there's nothing wrong with your car". My boots were worn to the bone and my brake fluid's leaking all over the place from a broken gasket! (It's really bad) <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/crazydriver.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":crazydriver:" title="crazy driver :crazydriver:" data-shortname=":crazydriver:" /></p><p></p><p></p><p>I've definitely found Mr. Right! I had no idea, though, that when I changed my name, it became Mrs. Wrong. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/clubbing.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":clubbing:" title="clubbing :clubbing:" data-shortname=":clubbing:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ShakespeareMamaX, post: 131413, member: 3861"] He has stated this, Marguerite. But his jealously is overcoming the priorities of his family. I would have loved for this marriage to work. It's going to end, though. We discussed where we would be living (our house is being foreclosed on. I've lost a lot of money having to miss so much work for everyone's appts. He has turned a blind eye on this (and tried to prevent me from doing anything by erasing all the msgs from the agent and atty and tossing all the mail) and I've been doing everything in my power to prevent it (giving everyone my cell# for one), including keeping the house as spotless as i can, using all of MY savings on an atty, getting an agent and setting up all the showings while husband is at work. I told him our deadline to be out was 17 March (lucky day, huh?). Of COURSE he wouldn't know this, having paid no attention to the situation that I was trying to fix. He got mad and I told him we need to find a new place, asap. I told him about this little place that's only $600 a month that wouldn't require a credit check. He demanded we go to one specific town and he's looking at places for $1100! I'm trying to explain that we CAN NOT do that and we're at the end of our rope. He stuck to his guns. I told him "fine, but if there's nothing set up by the 17th, I'm going to the $600 apt by myself". I swear, it's one thing after another. I stop smoking. He pressures me to start back up. :cigarsmoker: I stop eating meat. He insults me. :oktoberfest: I cook for everyone. He'll say he's not hungry, then, go to Taco Bell a half hour, later. :morecrackers: I say I want to get a second job to make up for the money I'm missing out on. He shoots me down and says I can't do it. :talkhand: I say I want to fix up the house so we can sell it (myself). Again, he shoots me down saying I can't/won't do it. :nono: I start learning car mechanics to fix my own car so I would stop "bothering" him. He gets mad, saying he could have done it. Mind you, he let me go months driving myself and the kids around with barely any working brakes claiming "there's nothing wrong with your car". My boots were worn to the bone and my brake fluid's leaking all over the place from a broken gasket! (It's really bad) :crazydriver: I've definitely found Mr. Right! I had no idea, though, that when I changed my name, it became Mrs. Wrong. :clubbing: [/QUOTE]
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