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<blockquote data-quote="Mom2oddson" data-source="post: 369135" data-attributes="member: 65"><p>I keep working on husband to come and talk to therapist, and I hope someday he does. She's been a part of our family for 10 years now. She was the first one that difficult child-Ant saw, then she saw difficult child-Step. I even had easy child go because 10 years ago, I thought it was my parenting. She told me that easy child was one to the most well-adjusted kids she's met. I've continued with her because she truly understand the difficult children. I don't think anyone else would believe me without knowing them first. </p><p></p><p>I know that husband will consider himself fine in a few days. He'll have stuffed down all his pain by then. It's what he's been trained to do. Growing up with mother in law, he couldn't say anything for fear of what her reaction/punishment would be. And when she would do a complete 180 and he said anything, he'd be told that he didn't remember right or that he was lying. I really wish he would go talk to someone, he has a lot of past pain to deal with. </p><p></p><p>The thing is, he's glad that I go, he says it does me good. However, when I remember the Massive Fit mother in law threw when she found out that I was taking difficult child-Ant to see a therapist/psychiatrist.... I can see why husband doesn't want to go. mother in law threw a 3 hour fit about how "no one in her family has a problem" it was all me and easy child that were messed up. When I wouldn't back down, she showed up to meet this so called doctor.... she was in the room for 15 minutes and left. The therapist said "she has the same problems as her grandchild".... I still smile over that one!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mom2oddson, post: 369135, member: 65"] I keep working on husband to come and talk to therapist, and I hope someday he does. She's been a part of our family for 10 years now. She was the first one that difficult child-Ant saw, then she saw difficult child-Step. I even had easy child go because 10 years ago, I thought it was my parenting. She told me that easy child was one to the most well-adjusted kids she's met. I've continued with her because she truly understand the difficult children. I don't think anyone else would believe me without knowing them first. I know that husband will consider himself fine in a few days. He'll have stuffed down all his pain by then. It's what he's been trained to do. Growing up with mother in law, he couldn't say anything for fear of what her reaction/punishment would be. And when she would do a complete 180 and he said anything, he'd be told that he didn't remember right or that he was lying. I really wish he would go talk to someone, he has a lot of past pain to deal with. The thing is, he's glad that I go, he says it does me good. However, when I remember the Massive Fit mother in law threw when she found out that I was taking difficult child-Ant to see a therapist/psychiatrist.... I can see why husband doesn't want to go. mother in law threw a 3 hour fit about how "no one in her family has a problem" it was all me and easy child that were messed up. When I wouldn't back down, she showed up to meet this so called doctor.... she was in the room for 15 minutes and left. The therapist said "she has the same problems as her grandchild".... I still smile over that one! [/QUOTE]
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