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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 551764" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Actually I completely understand where he is coming from. on the other hand if he can actually get it back I'd say he is Wonder Man.As you know husband and I are in a sad financial position in our old age and literally it is all due to GFGmom. Both of us really hold negative feelings that will never ebb. It's hard to explain how you can love and resent at the same time but it is possible. If your husband can pull this off he may actually be able to see the adult children as family contributors instead of the habitual takers they have been.</p><p></p><p>Of course we love her sons, our difficult child's, but when we see her the financial resentment resurfaces. She has never given a cent to support the decades we've lovingly spent raising or help raising them. on the other hand she has gone on lots of cruises, destination vacations etc. and always has a new car than we do. We are not materialistic people but her choices have really harmed us. I think your husband is on to something. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 551764, member: 35"] Actually I completely understand where he is coming from. on the other hand if he can actually get it back I'd say he is Wonder Man.As you know husband and I are in a sad financial position in our old age and literally it is all due to GFGmom. Both of us really hold negative feelings that will never ebb. It's hard to explain how you can love and resent at the same time but it is possible. If your husband can pull this off he may actually be able to see the adult children as family contributors instead of the habitual takers they have been. Of course we love her sons, our difficult child's, but when we see her the financial resentment resurfaces. She has never given a cent to support the decades we've lovingly spent raising or help raising them. on the other hand she has gone on lots of cruises, destination vacations etc. and always has a new car than we do. We are not materialistic people but her choices have really harmed us. I think your husband is on to something. DDD [/QUOTE]
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