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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 69838" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: AllStressedOut</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The only thing that comes to mind is, if you were this way when he married you, then he knew what he was getting into.</p><p> </div></div></p><p></p><p>That is the exact thing I have been telling him for years. I was never like that. I was never one to be hanging on him and holding his hand to make him happy. Nobody ever had to hold my hand to make me happy. I have tried to get him to see for years that I was never even like that with my kids. I am very close emotionally, but my family growing up was never kissie huggie, and I'm not like that with anyone. In fact people who always need to hug and kiss me make me pretty uncomfortable. </p><p></p><p>What really aggrivates me is every time we have approached this subject I have given him ample opportunity to leave and find what he felt he needed from a relationship, and he always chose to stay. He would at times make me feel very inadequate because I couldn't give him what he needed and I have told him for years I don't want him to ever look back at our marriage and regret spending so many years with someone who he felt couldn't give him the attention he needed. As far as I'm concerned life is to short to spend it with someone who you aren't completeley happy with. He still keeps saying he would never leave me, but I think that is the cowards way out. I think he wants me to leave so he can feel it wasn't his fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 69838, member: 2442"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: AllStressedOut</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The only thing that comes to mind is, if you were this way when he married you, then he knew what he was getting into. </div></div> That is the exact thing I have been telling him for years. I was never like that. I was never one to be hanging on him and holding his hand to make him happy. Nobody ever had to hold my hand to make me happy. I have tried to get him to see for years that I was never even like that with my kids. I am very close emotionally, but my family growing up was never kissie huggie, and I'm not like that with anyone. In fact people who always need to hug and kiss me make me pretty uncomfortable. What really aggrivates me is every time we have approached this subject I have given him ample opportunity to leave and find what he felt he needed from a relationship, and he always chose to stay. He would at times make me feel very inadequate because I couldn't give him what he needed and I have told him for years I don't want him to ever look back at our marriage and regret spending so many years with someone who he felt couldn't give him the attention he needed. As far as I'm concerned life is to short to spend it with someone who you aren't completeley happy with. He still keeps saying he would never leave me, but I think that is the cowards way out. I think he wants me to leave so he can feel it wasn't his fault. [/QUOTE]
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