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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 70523" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The_Loan_Ranger</div><div class="ubbcode-body">K, </p><p></p><p>Adding my support. </p><p></p><p> - after 30 years with you, who else would have him? Oh that's right..she would. So HE told HER he wouldn't leave YOU. </p><p></p><p>I think dear, he already did. Didn't he? And he left you when YOU needed him most. Gosh, I know I'd be sticking around for a second helping of that!! </p><p></p><p></p><p>When I went through this I was asked: "What value do you place on the rest of your years?" Are you gonna hang around for another helping or are you going to find your self worth. </p><p></p><p>True...marriages have survived worse. I personally didn't want to survive...I wanted to LIVE. You're wise to seek counseling...AND..I'd like to add PLEASE stop apologizing to him for not being a touchy-feely woman. He had to touch you sometime or you wouldn't have kids. Or...should we be callin' you Mother Mary? You are who you are. No apologies needed! </p><p></p><p>Reaching out to you - because you're a friend indeed. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </div></div></p><p></p><p>Oh my god. Are you sure you aren't my counselor. These are the exact things she said to me. </p><p></p><p>I can't write to much right now because I'm getting ready for my moms service, but she made me promise I would focus on that and only that until tomorrow. My counselor is awesome and pretty much said the same things as above, even what to ask myself if I was thinking of staying with him. She had me tell him last night that I was discussing none of this with him until I was able to properly grieve for my mom and that he was not to kiss me and told me he loved me, but only to be cordial to me in front of people during the service. She was he sounds like an overgrown baby who has to have all or nothing. </p><p></p><p>She set up four Tuesday appointments in a row for me. We are going to work on me!!!! She is awesome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 70523, member: 2442"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The_Loan_Ranger</div><div class="ubbcode-body">K, Adding my support. - after 30 years with you, who else would have him? Oh that's right..she would. So HE told HER he wouldn't leave YOU. I think dear, he already did. Didn't he? And he left you when YOU needed him most. Gosh, I know I'd be sticking around for a second helping of that!! When I went through this I was asked: "What value do you place on the rest of your years?" Are you gonna hang around for another helping or are you going to find your self worth. True...marriages have survived worse. I personally didn't want to survive...I wanted to LIVE. You're wise to seek counseling...AND..I'd like to add PLEASE stop apologizing to him for not being a touchy-feely woman. He had to touch you sometime or you wouldn't have kids. Or...should we be callin' you Mother Mary? You are who you are. No apologies needed! Reaching out to you - because you're a friend indeed. Hugs & Love Star </div></div> Oh my god. Are you sure you aren't my counselor. These are the exact things she said to me. I can't write to much right now because I'm getting ready for my moms service, but she made me promise I would focus on that and only that until tomorrow. My counselor is awesome and pretty much said the same things as above, even what to ask myself if I was thinking of staying with him. She had me tell him last night that I was discussing none of this with him until I was able to properly grieve for my mom and that he was not to kiss me and told me he loved me, but only to be cordial to me in front of people during the service. She was he sounds like an overgrown baby who has to have all or nothing. She set up four Tuesday appointments in a row for me. We are going to work on me!!!! She is awesome. [/QUOTE]
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