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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 583896" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>RM...you always give the most compassionate, heartfelt responses to hurting mothers. I am always in awe at your way with words and your kindness. I wish I had the same ability you have to make people feel better. I don't, but I'm going to try. Please forgive me if I fail.</p><p></p><p>You have a looooooooooong history with husband and it is to his discredit that he is willing to throw this all away to chase bimbos who probably won't want him because he's no spring chicken anymore. Unless he has a ton of money, these young bimbos will never care for him, at his age, (or pretend to care f or him) the way he thinks it will be. He could have had a nice retirement with you, but he is throwing out the best thing he has...you. in my opinion you can still have a nice retirement, maybe even better, without him. I am going to be 60 and am no longer working now (you must have read about the work drama) and am looking ahead to change my life's priorities and to form new bonds with new people. My husband is a good man, but he is younger than me by a few years and works full time and will f or a while so I am trying hard to find nice women friends to do things with and hang out with. Yes, you can hang out at sixty...lol. I forced myself to join a choir, a community theatre group, TOPS, a Unitarian Church and it's paying off...I am meeting new friends quickly. You can move on without him and his problems. That doesn't mean your heart won't hurt, but you're a warrior mom and you've done it before. Just make sure you get a good lawyer so you get every dime you an entitled to plus part of his pension and maintenance since you were married for so long and anything else the law allows. You can still take vacations. You don't need him for that. </p><p></p><p>You are so sweet and I feel so badly for you. I hope my advice was helpful and taken in the right spirit. I really hope you can overcome this, as you have all else, and have that great retirement you want WITHOUT HIS NONSENSE marring it. Gentle hugs and lots and lots of love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 583896, member: 1550"] RM...you always give the most compassionate, heartfelt responses to hurting mothers. I am always in awe at your way with words and your kindness. I wish I had the same ability you have to make people feel better. I don't, but I'm going to try. Please forgive me if I fail. You have a looooooooooong history with husband and it is to his discredit that he is willing to throw this all away to chase bimbos who probably won't want him because he's no spring chicken anymore. Unless he has a ton of money, these young bimbos will never care for him, at his age, (or pretend to care f or him) the way he thinks it will be. He could have had a nice retirement with you, but he is throwing out the best thing he has...you. in my opinion you can still have a nice retirement, maybe even better, without him. I am going to be 60 and am no longer working now (you must have read about the work drama) and am looking ahead to change my life's priorities and to form new bonds with new people. My husband is a good man, but he is younger than me by a few years and works full time and will f or a while so I am trying hard to find nice women friends to do things with and hang out with. Yes, you can hang out at sixty...lol. I forced myself to join a choir, a community theatre group, TOPS, a Unitarian Church and it's paying off...I am meeting new friends quickly. You can move on without him and his problems. That doesn't mean your heart won't hurt, but you're a warrior mom and you've done it before. Just make sure you get a good lawyer so you get every dime you an entitled to plus part of his pension and maintenance since you were married for so long and anything else the law allows. You can still take vacations. You don't need him for that. You are so sweet and I feel so badly for you. I hope my advice was helpful and taken in the right spirit. I really hope you can overcome this, as you have all else, and have that great retirement you want WITHOUT HIS NONSENSE marring it. Gentle hugs and lots and lots of love. [/QUOTE]
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