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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 584076" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>RM.....now I cant tell you personally from going through a divorce first hand but I can tell you about my parents divorce and they lived in VA which is a mid atlantic state. I actually think VA still has adultery on the books though because when Jamie was going to get his divorce he had that option but he chose to just go no contest to get it over with quicker...but dont quote me. Maybe its NC... He was military so he had an option of states. </p><p></p><p> Anyway, My parents were married just over 30 years when they got divorced. There were sizable assets in their divorce and my mother was the one who decided she wanted the divorce, so before even telling my father she started socking money away in cashier's checks just in her name alone. In large sums. She hid these so that they werent part of the settlement when it went into the battle. She took my dad to the cleaners and my dad had done nothing to her except support the woman for 30 years. No cheating, no abuse, no drugs, nothing. He just worked hard. </p><p></p><p>My parents house was paid for and they had to sell it and my mom got 70% of the profits. My mom got 50% of all bank accounts and 50% of his retirement accounts. He had to keep her on his insurance for 3 years and he had to provide support for me until I was 21 though I didnt know it. </p><p></p><p>Ironically enough, his divorce was finalized on Xmas eve...lol.</p><p></p><p>So, you can take a man to the cleaners even when they are a good man so I cant imagine what you can do to one if they are bad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 584076, member: 1514"] RM.....now I cant tell you personally from going through a divorce first hand but I can tell you about my parents divorce and they lived in VA which is a mid atlantic state. I actually think VA still has adultery on the books though because when Jamie was going to get his divorce he had that option but he chose to just go no contest to get it over with quicker...but dont quote me. Maybe its NC... He was military so he had an option of states. Anyway, My parents were married just over 30 years when they got divorced. There were sizable assets in their divorce and my mother was the one who decided she wanted the divorce, so before even telling my father she started socking money away in cashier's checks just in her name alone. In large sums. She hid these so that they werent part of the settlement when it went into the battle. She took my dad to the cleaners and my dad had done nothing to her except support the woman for 30 years. No cheating, no abuse, no drugs, nothing. He just worked hard. My parents house was paid for and they had to sell it and my mom got 70% of the profits. My mom got 50% of all bank accounts and 50% of his retirement accounts. He had to keep her on his insurance for 3 years and he had to provide support for me until I was 21 though I didnt know it. Ironically enough, his divorce was finalized on Xmas eve...lol. So, you can take a man to the cleaners even when they are a good man so I cant imagine what you can do to one if they are bad. [/QUOTE]
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