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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 383688" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Jena, remember to give him a break too. Men dont handle these things as well emotionally as moms most of the time. They want to be able to reach in and fix things because that is their nature. They are they fixers of this world. If a picture falls, they take the hammer and level out and rehang the picture. They dont go get their buddies, talk about why the picture fell, if it would still look good where it was, if they should move it somewhere else, if there was a ground fault that caused the picture to fall, if their buddies want to watch them hang the picture...etc...lol. No...they just fix the darn thing! </p><p></p><p>Broken kids arent like that and there isnt a manual for how to deal with them or their momma's so the Dads feel helpless. They cant get a hammer or some duct tape and fix this. </p><p></p><p>Your husband, who isnt even this childs father, has offered to open up his 401K to get her the help she needs. Not all men would do that. Not when she has a father who should be doing that for her. He really is a good man. He may be stumbling on how to show you he cares but its probably because he doesnt know how.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 383688, member: 1514"] Jena, remember to give him a break too. Men dont handle these things as well emotionally as moms most of the time. They want to be able to reach in and fix things because that is their nature. They are they fixers of this world. If a picture falls, they take the hammer and level out and rehang the picture. They dont go get their buddies, talk about why the picture fell, if it would still look good where it was, if they should move it somewhere else, if there was a ground fault that caused the picture to fall, if their buddies want to watch them hang the picture...etc...lol. No...they just fix the darn thing! Broken kids arent like that and there isnt a manual for how to deal with them or their momma's so the Dads feel helpless. They cant get a hammer or some duct tape and fix this. Your husband, who isnt even this childs father, has offered to open up his 401K to get her the help she needs. Not all men would do that. Not when she has a father who should be doing that for her. He really is a good man. He may be stumbling on how to show you he cares but its probably because he doesnt know how. [/QUOTE]
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