nvts
Active Member
Gotta tell you, I've been standing on my head and spittin' nickles trying to satisfy the entire free world around this seperation. I have come to the conclusion that he's got exactly what he wanted and was too much of a coward to say so.
He has changed his email password, facebook password, told our neighbor who was having a wedding bash at her house (they'd been together for 19 years and decided to make it official) that he was coming and bringing his wife as a date, didn't call, show up - nothing.
difficult child 1 has been having violent meltdowns every day. Every day. I ER'd him, standard questions, released. He has a psychiatrist appointment on Wed. I don't know what type of medication to ask for (high anxiety, neurotic in the sense that if he makes a mistake or does something wrong they're going to kick him out of school and hate him, lightning fast explosive temper, broke sheetrock in 2 rooms, etc.)
I went to the wedding bash had a great time, but my sister who was watching the kids stalked out when I got home (admittedly it was late, but she told me to stay and have fun - I had my cell and difficult child 1 had a meltdown and she didn't call me). First time in 6 years that I have gone out and it is now the last. Gotta love it!
Sorry for dumping on you - I just need to get this out of my system - I swear it feels like poison!
Beth
He has changed his email password, facebook password, told our neighbor who was having a wedding bash at her house (they'd been together for 19 years and decided to make it official) that he was coming and bringing his wife as a date, didn't call, show up - nothing.
difficult child 1 has been having violent meltdowns every day. Every day. I ER'd him, standard questions, released. He has a psychiatrist appointment on Wed. I don't know what type of medication to ask for (high anxiety, neurotic in the sense that if he makes a mistake or does something wrong they're going to kick him out of school and hate him, lightning fast explosive temper, broke sheetrock in 2 rooms, etc.)
I went to the wedding bash had a great time, but my sister who was watching the kids stalked out when I got home (admittedly it was late, but she told me to stay and have fun - I had my cell and difficult child 1 had a meltdown and she didn't call me). First time in 6 years that I have gone out and it is now the last. Gotta love it!
Sorry for dumping on you - I just need to get this out of my system - I swear it feels like poison!
Beth