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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 407944" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>DDD you get me i'm a loving kind person, yet do not lie to me it's that simple. and there were just soo many in one day. i counted it was like 7 lies. each time i knew he was lying. his ex didnt' have to know anything at all. it didnt' pertain to her and the cps agent wasn't there at all when his kids were. also they were not brought into the report whatsoever nor was husband accused of anything.</p><p> </p><p>he simply yet again did the wrong thing with the same woman who had him for 18 years and well i guess that didnt' work for her lol. so what can i say? she isnt' using up my 18 plain and simple. i always step up for the kids too much soo i think at times. yet at the end of the day if he was scared he should of text his buddies a guy friend a woman he's friends with not the woman who we think had a hand in this and who also bashes me to the kids to this day. sorry pyscho Jen lol i have zero tolerance in that regard i truly do.</p><p> </p><p>Sven i'm so sorry to hear that for you. sheesh we've all been thru so much huh.?? yea the texting got me, you know what got me most of all is that he didn't trust me enough to tell me hey i'd like to ask her if she did it is that ok with-you? i'm a rational person may not seem that way right now <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> yet i truly am. he didn't trust in me enough, he took what he thought to be the easier road and simply lied to my face repeatedly. than had a night with-me with movies and popcorn telling me aw baby cps it's no big deal it'll be ok. snowed me............ sorry yet he did. he knows it.</p><p> </p><p>Haozi i am running with it problem is we'll get in in a week which is a bit from now. so i gotta bite my tongue and well ya know me that ain't easy...... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> i'm not sure what you meant with the rest of the post i think you meant husband's ex how would she feel if it was reverse?? thing is their well them his ex wife and her new wife. remember she's gay? sooo ex wife's new wife (you following? LOL ) gets confusing she is best buddies with-her ex. they asked him years ago to do the extended family thing and he was into it. they asked us too i said what no way. i said to husband before we got engaged tell me now if you want that, shared vacations holidays etc.? because that's not the life i want. i was soooo clear.</p><p> </p><p>Steely your just all about the love lol. i get where your coming from. if he isnt out hooking up i should be grateful. yet i may seem witchy yet i have to know that 90 percent of the time i can trust my husband, that the words he says are words i can trust and count on. i also need to get some marriage counseling for looking in his phone. clearly i know not to trust him. without trust there's not a whole lot.</p><p> </p><p>like i said i'll give therapy a shot. yet i was real honest with-husband i told him hey i love you without a doubt, yet i'm not into this anymore. i sat by for years and gave you the space you needed to go thru your degrees of seperation. i'm not waiting it out anymore i have a life to live. i gave you time now we are married you said you were ready i asked five million times and you said im ready i love you. so yea i'm not going to wait another ten years till these two get how to be divorced. i understand they talk about kids i have absolutely no problem about that yet his loyalties have to lie with me now not her.</p><p> </p><p>afterall let's also take it from this perspective this woman cheated on him, dumped him, had him get a vascetomy prior to that to ensure he wouldnt' make anymore kids he agreed not knowing she was cheating than offered him to live in her basement. soooo with all that being said what's up with husband that he still answers her texts and calls unless kid related? HMMMM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 407944, member: 4514"] DDD you get me i'm a loving kind person, yet do not lie to me it's that simple. and there were just soo many in one day. i counted it was like 7 lies. each time i knew he was lying. his ex didnt' have to know anything at all. it didnt' pertain to her and the cps agent wasn't there at all when his kids were. also they were not brought into the report whatsoever nor was husband accused of anything. he simply yet again did the wrong thing with the same woman who had him for 18 years and well i guess that didnt' work for her lol. so what can i say? she isnt' using up my 18 plain and simple. i always step up for the kids too much soo i think at times. yet at the end of the day if he was scared he should of text his buddies a guy friend a woman he's friends with not the woman who we think had a hand in this and who also bashes me to the kids to this day. sorry pyscho Jen lol i have zero tolerance in that regard i truly do. Sven i'm so sorry to hear that for you. sheesh we've all been thru so much huh.?? yea the texting got me, you know what got me most of all is that he didn't trust me enough to tell me hey i'd like to ask her if she did it is that ok with-you? i'm a rational person may not seem that way right now :) yet i truly am. he didn't trust in me enough, he took what he thought to be the easier road and simply lied to my face repeatedly. than had a night with-me with movies and popcorn telling me aw baby cps it's no big deal it'll be ok. snowed me............ sorry yet he did. he knows it. Haozi i am running with it problem is we'll get in in a week which is a bit from now. so i gotta bite my tongue and well ya know me that ain't easy...... :) i'm not sure what you meant with the rest of the post i think you meant husband's ex how would she feel if it was reverse?? thing is their well them his ex wife and her new wife. remember she's gay? sooo ex wife's new wife (you following? LOL ) gets confusing she is best buddies with-her ex. they asked him years ago to do the extended family thing and he was into it. they asked us too i said what no way. i said to husband before we got engaged tell me now if you want that, shared vacations holidays etc.? because that's not the life i want. i was soooo clear. Steely your just all about the love lol. i get where your coming from. if he isnt out hooking up i should be grateful. yet i may seem witchy yet i have to know that 90 percent of the time i can trust my husband, that the words he says are words i can trust and count on. i also need to get some marriage counseling for looking in his phone. clearly i know not to trust him. without trust there's not a whole lot. like i said i'll give therapy a shot. yet i was real honest with-husband i told him hey i love you without a doubt, yet i'm not into this anymore. i sat by for years and gave you the space you needed to go thru your degrees of seperation. i'm not waiting it out anymore i have a life to live. i gave you time now we are married you said you were ready i asked five million times and you said im ready i love you. so yea i'm not going to wait another ten years till these two get how to be divorced. i understand they talk about kids i have absolutely no problem about that yet his loyalties have to lie with me now not her. afterall let's also take it from this perspective this woman cheated on him, dumped him, had him get a vascetomy prior to that to ensure he wouldnt' make anymore kids he agreed not knowing she was cheating than offered him to live in her basement. soooo with all that being said what's up with husband that he still answers her texts and calls unless kid related? HMMMM [/QUOTE]
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