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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 408031" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>shari how are you? we were all wondering where you were i hope your feeling better, hope wee's doing ok. i can see your approach and it working i think it's a great idea. i tried that a while ago, yet it blew up on me ex wife kissed husband in my presence, than hugged him, flirted with him. i was so upset grosed out and probably more upset because husband didnt' seem to mind! this was years ago though right after divorce. i remember pulling up one day into my driveway where ex wife was leaning over to kiss husband good bye after dropping kids! can you imagine? not a real kiss yet on the lips a quick one.</p><p> </p><p>there has been soo much to handle here. i chose to marry him, things past few years have changed they have otherwise i wouldnt' be able to be with-him. </p><p> </p><p>i think the problem isn't the ex, she will do what she does it's husband is the issue. he either feels something for this woman or doesn't. he tells me over and over again he doesn't care about her, yet his continued actions speak louder than words. it's like anyone can do anything yet it's how you react to it. for him to get on the phone with-her via text and than a phone call to "prove her innocence regarding cps", after we just sat with-worker who stated that the school filed it. he already got his answer. </p><p> </p><p>he always finds a way to share with-her what's going on in his life with-her somehow. he'll always use the excuse well she's the mother of my kids. i'm betting your husband has no attachment whatsoever with his ex, right? like wouldn't never text, answer to her besides a kid question that sort of thing.</p><p> </p><p>for us it's just so different. husband even states i dont' hate my ex, i strongly believe he still really likes her, and will probably always love her. if he had just admitted that years ago and been honest it would be alot easier i think for all. we'll c what therapy brings.</p><p> </p><p>grace i see your point yet i shelter her from reality all the time. him and i literally check kids to see if their sleeping and their doors are closed before we discuss anything. it's silly we should be able to talk in the open yet difficult child disturbs us constantly. she's going to be 12, she knew something was up. i was honest. and let her see hey wow lyings' not good mom's upset and it doesnt' fly. it's a self respect thing too to teach her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 408031, member: 4514"] shari how are you? we were all wondering where you were i hope your feeling better, hope wee's doing ok. i can see your approach and it working i think it's a great idea. i tried that a while ago, yet it blew up on me ex wife kissed husband in my presence, than hugged him, flirted with him. i was so upset grosed out and probably more upset because husband didnt' seem to mind! this was years ago though right after divorce. i remember pulling up one day into my driveway where ex wife was leaning over to kiss husband good bye after dropping kids! can you imagine? not a real kiss yet on the lips a quick one. there has been soo much to handle here. i chose to marry him, things past few years have changed they have otherwise i wouldnt' be able to be with-him. i think the problem isn't the ex, she will do what she does it's husband is the issue. he either feels something for this woman or doesn't. he tells me over and over again he doesn't care about her, yet his continued actions speak louder than words. it's like anyone can do anything yet it's how you react to it. for him to get on the phone with-her via text and than a phone call to "prove her innocence regarding cps", after we just sat with-worker who stated that the school filed it. he already got his answer. he always finds a way to share with-her what's going on in his life with-her somehow. he'll always use the excuse well she's the mother of my kids. i'm betting your husband has no attachment whatsoever with his ex, right? like wouldn't never text, answer to her besides a kid question that sort of thing. for us it's just so different. husband even states i dont' hate my ex, i strongly believe he still really likes her, and will probably always love her. if he had just admitted that years ago and been honest it would be alot easier i think for all. we'll c what therapy brings. grace i see your point yet i shelter her from reality all the time. him and i literally check kids to see if their sleeping and their doors are closed before we discuss anything. it's silly we should be able to talk in the open yet difficult child disturbs us constantly. she's going to be 12, she knew something was up. i was honest. and let her see hey wow lyings' not good mom's upset and it doesnt' fly. it's a self respect thing too to teach her. [/QUOTE]
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