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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 408069" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>To answer your question, Jen, if husband's ex would speak to him, yes, he would carry on a conversation with her. I have no doubt. Before she took the stance of hating him (and early in our relationship, when she was very much trying to break us up) she called him to come over several times to talk. And he'd go. I knew. I didn't like it, but it was my problem, not his. </p><p> </p><p>At present, she will nto speak to husband without screaming, but if she did, he would respond, be it about cgfg or 'how's the weather'. I have no doubt.</p><p> </p><p>I also have no doubt that I would feel at the very least semi-******-off if she did suddenly start randomly texting and chatting with him and he started responding because I feel that with all the havoc and stress she has brought into my world, he shouldn't "reward" her with his time. But that's my feeling; not his. He doesn't keep score and doesn't much think beyond the here and now. And I think that may be how a lot of guys operate.</p><p> </p><p>We see "continued communication" and "use and abuse" and he sees "she was mean to me yesterday, I didn't talk to her yesterday", and then today "she asked a question and was nice, so I answered"...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 408069, member: 1848"] To answer your question, Jen, if husband's ex would speak to him, yes, he would carry on a conversation with her. I have no doubt. Before she took the stance of hating him (and early in our relationship, when she was very much trying to break us up) she called him to come over several times to talk. And he'd go. I knew. I didn't like it, but it was my problem, not his. At present, she will nto speak to husband without screaming, but if she did, he would respond, be it about cgfg or 'how's the weather'. I have no doubt. I also have no doubt that I would feel at the very least semi-******-off if she did suddenly start randomly texting and chatting with him and he started responding because I feel that with all the havoc and stress she has brought into my world, he shouldn't "reward" her with his time. But that's my feeling; not his. He doesn't keep score and doesn't much think beyond the here and now. And I think that may be how a lot of guys operate. We see "continued communication" and "use and abuse" and he sees "she was mean to me yesterday, I didn't talk to her yesterday", and then today "she asked a question and was nice, so I answered"... [/QUOTE]
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