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<blockquote data-quote="paperplate" data-source="post: 577406" data-attributes="member: 15831"><p>So, anyway, husband moved out last week. He said it was him or our son...naturally, I chose our son. DS13 has both epilepsy and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). With the epilepsy comes sensory seizures. It causes him to hear voices that aren't there. They're basically misfires in the brain and part of his aura. He has other types of seizures as well, but that on scares him the most. So anyway, I got my DS a dog yesterday. She's a cutie. DS adores her! The idea behind the dog is to have someone in his room with him at night to make the voices easier to deal with. THEN: Problem starts. husband calls, says he wants to come and see our daughter. DS13 got excited because he thought his dad would be excited about the dog (and he's still waiting for husband to just plain give a **** about him). NOPE! husband walked in the door and within 5 minutes he has us all a nervous wreck. First, he noticed that DS 13 had left the door a crack open while letting the dog out, then he noticed a tinker toy laying on the floor 'touching' the wall, then he noticed DS13 didn't put his shoes on in the proper location. Within 5 minutes, we were slobs, destroying the house. It was horrible. I could feel my blood pressure rise and that old anxiety settle back into my shoulders. Once I got husband out of the house DS 13 stimming came back in full force...ugh! It just plain sucked! He started back at school yesterday for a two hour day. He's still get's home instruction, but we're trying a combination of both. Anyway, yesterday was fine, but then today I dropped him off and he looked ready to vomit. He's just so upset and it's breaking my heart. husband had said he simply did not ask for an autistic kid, he didn't sign up for it....OMG! I'm just soooooo angry. I honestly don't know how to rid myself of the anger. It's all consuming and I'm sick of it. But at least we took a positive step. DS is back in school, we have a pretty cool dog & tonight DS is spending the night at Grammies again...God Bless Grandmas! Maybe tonight I'll just suck down a couple tubes of icecream and veg about on the couch. It's not like I need to impress anyone anymore! LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="paperplate, post: 577406, member: 15831"] So, anyway, husband moved out last week. He said it was him or our son...naturally, I chose our son. DS13 has both epilepsy and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). With the epilepsy comes sensory seizures. It causes him to hear voices that aren't there. They're basically misfires in the brain and part of his aura. He has other types of seizures as well, but that on scares him the most. So anyway, I got my DS a dog yesterday. She's a cutie. DS adores her! The idea behind the dog is to have someone in his room with him at night to make the voices easier to deal with. THEN: Problem starts. husband calls, says he wants to come and see our daughter. DS13 got excited because he thought his dad would be excited about the dog (and he's still waiting for husband to just plain give a **** about him). NOPE! husband walked in the door and within 5 minutes he has us all a nervous wreck. First, he noticed that DS 13 had left the door a crack open while letting the dog out, then he noticed a tinker toy laying on the floor 'touching' the wall, then he noticed DS13 didn't put his shoes on in the proper location. Within 5 minutes, we were slobs, destroying the house. It was horrible. I could feel my blood pressure rise and that old anxiety settle back into my shoulders. Once I got husband out of the house DS 13 stimming came back in full force...ugh! It just plain sucked! He started back at school yesterday for a two hour day. He's still get's home instruction, but we're trying a combination of both. Anyway, yesterday was fine, but then today I dropped him off and he looked ready to vomit. He's just so upset and it's breaking my heart. husband had said he simply did not ask for an autistic kid, he didn't sign up for it....OMG! I'm just soooooo angry. I honestly don't know how to rid myself of the anger. It's all consuming and I'm sick of it. But at least we took a positive step. DS is back in school, we have a pretty cool dog & tonight DS is spending the night at Grammies again...God Bless Grandmas! Maybe tonight I'll just suck down a couple tubes of icecream and veg about on the couch. It's not like I need to impress anyone anymore! LOL [/QUOTE]
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