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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 577416" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>First, thanks for your reply on my post, I responded just fyi if you wannna read it, smile.</p><p></p><p>Second, I think husband just did you a favor. That had to take all doubts about if this was the right thing for all of you! He may have good qualities in there but he is not meant to be a dad to any of them. Not as a job anyway. Maybe he'd be a better weekend "fun" dad. But that kind of stress and control will hurt an already hurting child and clearly is not good for any of them NOR YOU!</p><p></p><p>My avitar is our new dog JJ. I got him as a therapy/service dog for my son too. It has been the best thing in the world! Our lives are totally different. I hope you find the same.</p><p></p><p>husband didn't plan to have a kid with autism?? Oh how nice, how many of us in the world did? Maybe he has some special pass that gives him a break from any challenges in life??? I suspect he is on the spectrum so just truly can't see another perspective. That is too bad but it might make it easier for you to just give up on trying to fix it. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry that you have to wade through the muck to get to a better place, but I think you really will. You have the natural parenting tools and you "get" your kids. They are blessed to have you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 577416, member: 12886"] First, thanks for your reply on my post, I responded just fyi if you wannna read it, smile. Second, I think husband just did you a favor. That had to take all doubts about if this was the right thing for all of you! He may have good qualities in there but he is not meant to be a dad to any of them. Not as a job anyway. Maybe he'd be a better weekend "fun" dad. But that kind of stress and control will hurt an already hurting child and clearly is not good for any of them NOR YOU! My avitar is our new dog JJ. I got him as a therapy/service dog for my son too. It has been the best thing in the world! Our lives are totally different. I hope you find the same. husband didn't plan to have a kid with autism?? Oh how nice, how many of us in the world did? Maybe he has some special pass that gives him a break from any challenges in life??? I suspect he is on the spectrum so just truly can't see another perspective. That is too bad but it might make it easier for you to just give up on trying to fix it. I'm sorry that you have to wade through the muck to get to a better place, but I think you really will. You have the natural parenting tools and you "get" your kids. They are blessed to have you. [/QUOTE]
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