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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 577874" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Paper, as you are working through and writing things down, make time to call the DV hotline. It is 24/7 and you NEED them. Many of us have said this, and you have acknowledged that h was abusive, but you don't seem to be connecting his abuse of the family with you needed to make that call. That call isn't just to whine or get sympathy. It is one of few places that will be able to really help you with every aspect of this, so that you and the kids do not suffer needlessly or get hurt badly when h realizes he has lost control totally. He is going to flip and he also sounds like the type to really hurt you, the kids esp DS13 (who he blames for his loss of control over you, and who he could really hurt, not just emotionally). There iis zero chance anyone can calm him when he realizes it. Zero.</p><p></p><p>Stop what you are doing and make the call. go up to the bathroom and lock yourself in if you have to. husband is likely to realize very soon that he no longer controls all of you, and the threat of that is enormous. Make the call NOW, please. Do it to keep your kids safe. As your h seems to resent your oldest, it is quite possible that h could truly hurt your son, or worse. All in the name of stopping and solving his problems and/or bringing you and your younger children under his control again. </p><p></p><p>It is highly unlikely that the neighbor kids will realize you are getting SNAP benefits. You do not have to separate food from non-food items at most stores. The computer does that very easily. You just swipe the SNAP card first and then pay for the rest with cash or a debit/credit card. it is not easy to detect because most kids don't pay that much attention to how some other mom is paying for things. </p><p></p><p>Please, make the call now. The national DV hotline can help and will refer you to help in your community: <strong>1&#8722;800&#8722;799&#8722;SAFE(7233)</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p>They will also make sure you have a lawyer who is familiar with DV issues, not just someone you picked from a phone book or wherever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 577874, member: 1233"] Paper, as you are working through and writing things down, make time to call the DV hotline. It is 24/7 and you NEED them. Many of us have said this, and you have acknowledged that h was abusive, but you don't seem to be connecting his abuse of the family with you needed to make that call. That call isn't just to whine or get sympathy. It is one of few places that will be able to really help you with every aspect of this, so that you and the kids do not suffer needlessly or get hurt badly when h realizes he has lost control totally. He is going to flip and he also sounds like the type to really hurt you, the kids esp DS13 (who he blames for his loss of control over you, and who he could really hurt, not just emotionally). There iis zero chance anyone can calm him when he realizes it. Zero. Stop what you are doing and make the call. go up to the bathroom and lock yourself in if you have to. husband is likely to realize very soon that he no longer controls all of you, and the threat of that is enormous. Make the call NOW, please. Do it to keep your kids safe. As your h seems to resent your oldest, it is quite possible that h could truly hurt your son, or worse. All in the name of stopping and solving his problems and/or bringing you and your younger children under his control again. It is highly unlikely that the neighbor kids will realize you are getting SNAP benefits. You do not have to separate food from non-food items at most stores. The computer does that very easily. You just swipe the SNAP card first and then pay for the rest with cash or a debit/credit card. it is not easy to detect because most kids don't pay that much attention to how some other mom is paying for things. Please, make the call now. The national DV hotline can help and will refer you to help in your community: [B]1−800−799−SAFE(7233) [/B] They will also make sure you have a lawyer who is familiar with DV issues, not just someone you picked from a phone book or wherever. [/QUOTE]
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