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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 577895" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Paperplate, I agree with what all the others have said.</p><p></p><p>1) Contact a DV shelter as soon as you can. They have advice and resources that can help you, ESPECIALLY as all of your household financial items are in your husband's name only. They will likely have ways to work with the utility companies etc. to get things transferred into your name. Leaving things as they are leaves you vulnerable -- your husband could arrange to have the power shut off, etc. and you won't have any recourse. It's one more area where you need to take back control.</p><p></p><p>2) Stick to your guns. You're doing the right thing, keep on keeping on.</p><p></p><p>3) See if you can arrange supervised visits for your children at a public place. The tdocs, DV shelter etc. can help you get this in place. Your children do not need to be terrorized in their own home by their father, especially when they're just starting to unwind after years of tension.</p><p></p><p>Many hugs to you.</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 577895, member: 3907"] Paperplate, I agree with what all the others have said. 1) Contact a DV shelter as soon as you can. They have advice and resources that can help you, ESPECIALLY as all of your household financial items are in your husband's name only. They will likely have ways to work with the utility companies etc. to get things transferred into your name. Leaving things as they are leaves you vulnerable -- your husband could arrange to have the power shut off, etc. and you won't have any recourse. It's one more area where you need to take back control. 2) Stick to your guns. You're doing the right thing, keep on keeping on. 3) See if you can arrange supervised visits for your children at a public place. The tdocs, DV shelter etc. can help you get this in place. Your children do not need to be terrorized in their own home by their father, especially when they're just starting to unwind after years of tension. Many hugs to you. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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