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husband's BIG secret.... and do I have enough proof?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 447071" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>OK, I'm going to hit you with a bit of diverging opinion here.</p><p></p><p>First off. EWWWW. Yes, it is an inappropriate environment for the kids. No argument there. BUT---</p><p></p><p>Do not do not do not whatever you do DO NOT go spy yourself. This can be labeled stalking. And the odds are you will see nothing you can use. Add to the fact that anything you DO see, will be labeled as inadmissible due to the person - YOU! If <em>your lawyer says to</em>, you can hire a professional.</p><p></p><p>As they are both adults, there probably is no crime being committed, except it's disgusting and offensive to "normal" people. Not sure what your state's laws say... (Sounds like she took "Flowers in the Attic" and so on, a bit seriously.)</p><p></p><p>Keep looking for a good custody lawyer. The fact that he moved away is going to be WAY more influential - effective abandonment of the kids. How long ago? If over a year, it's a slam dunk - especially with four whole visits.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion, you are right to try to protect the kids from this - and honestly, if you can swing it in any way, not bringing it up at all is the best way to do that. Because the minute you do, it's in court documents, and therefore most likely public record. The media loves stuff like this.</p><p></p><p>As for Google Earth - I can tell you for a fact that the pictures are NOT current. The one of my house shows father in law's motor home in front of the house. He stayed with us for a few months and left in APRIL 2006. Since they are not current, you could check it 100 times, see her car all 100, and it prove nothing.</p><p></p><p>If he is claiming the kids as dependents... That's tax fraud. Does he pay support???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 447071, member: 6705"] OK, I'm going to hit you with a bit of diverging opinion here. First off. EWWWW. Yes, it is an inappropriate environment for the kids. No argument there. BUT--- Do not do not do not whatever you do DO NOT go spy yourself. This can be labeled stalking. And the odds are you will see nothing you can use. Add to the fact that anything you DO see, will be labeled as inadmissible due to the person - YOU! If [I]your lawyer says to[/I], you can hire a professional. As they are both adults, there probably is no crime being committed, except it's disgusting and offensive to "normal" people. Not sure what your state's laws say... (Sounds like she took "Flowers in the Attic" and so on, a bit seriously.) Keep looking for a good custody lawyer. The fact that he moved away is going to be WAY more influential - effective abandonment of the kids. How long ago? If over a year, it's a slam dunk - especially with four whole visits. in my opinion, you are right to try to protect the kids from this - and honestly, if you can swing it in any way, not bringing it up at all is the best way to do that. Because the minute you do, it's in court documents, and therefore most likely public record. The media loves stuff like this. As for Google Earth - I can tell you for a fact that the pictures are NOT current. The one of my house shows father in law's motor home in front of the house. He stayed with us for a few months and left in APRIL 2006. Since they are not current, you could check it 100 times, see her car all 100, and it prove nothing. If he is claiming the kids as dependents... That's tax fraud. Does he pay support??? [/QUOTE]
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