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husband's gold bracelet and coins are missing
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 652112" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>They all try to pin it on somebody else. It's never them, of course. Whatever they are caught with, it is NEVER them.</p><p></p><p>Yes, they are convincing. My daughter had us totally bamboozled. We believed it wasn't her...at first.</p><p></p><p>Usually a good item can be sold hot outside of a pawn shop. There is usually no trail, just our gut feeling and common sense. In my gut I always felt that Daughter was lying and that SHE did the things she pinned on others. In the end, once she told all, it turned out my gut didn't mislead me. My heart did. I wanted to believe she was holding things for others and set up and being picked on because that was better than the truth...</p><p></p><p>You ever try to speak to K? Does K even exist? If my daughter pointed a finger at somebody else and was willing to give a full name (she never did...it was always "I don't know...he goes by...) we would have confronted the person upfront. Did Difficult Child give you a full name? If so, did you track him down or talk to him? </p><p></p><p>This is one of those things you will likely never find out for sure so Difficult Child can say, "You can't prove it" but go with your gut. I wish we had. We would have locked everything up sooner, although Daughter usually just stole a little at a time and usually stuck to money so that I'd think I was losing my mind. "Didn't I have $40 more here? I swear I did, but...maybe I didn't????" And Daughter always knew nothing about it. "Mom, you know you're spacy." </p><p></p><p>With Daughter, we just eventually had to admit she was making up fictitious people or using real people (without giving their names away) that didn't really do it because it was her.</p><p></p><p>Hugs!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 652112, member: 1550"] They all try to pin it on somebody else. It's never them, of course. Whatever they are caught with, it is NEVER them. Yes, they are convincing. My daughter had us totally bamboozled. We believed it wasn't her...at first. Usually a good item can be sold hot outside of a pawn shop. There is usually no trail, just our gut feeling and common sense. In my gut I always felt that Daughter was lying and that SHE did the things she pinned on others. In the end, once she told all, it turned out my gut didn't mislead me. My heart did. I wanted to believe she was holding things for others and set up and being picked on because that was better than the truth... You ever try to speak to K? Does K even exist? If my daughter pointed a finger at somebody else and was willing to give a full name (she never did...it was always "I don't know...he goes by...) we would have confronted the person upfront. Did Difficult Child give you a full name? If so, did you track him down or talk to him? This is one of those things you will likely never find out for sure so Difficult Child can say, "You can't prove it" but go with your gut. I wish we had. We would have locked everything up sooner, although Daughter usually just stole a little at a time and usually stuck to money so that I'd think I was losing my mind. "Didn't I have $40 more here? I swear I did, but...maybe I didn't????" And Daughter always knew nothing about it. "Mom, you know you're spacy." With Daughter, we just eventually had to admit she was making up fictitious people or using real people (without giving their names away) that didn't really do it because it was her. Hugs!!! [/QUOTE]
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