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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 305410" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Oh - on the "frustrated" front:</p><p></p><p>Being angry, hurt or scared was NOT something she has ever been safe to express. Holding it in, explaining it as frustration, is how she protected herself.</p><p></p><p>If she was angry they were abusive, told her she had NO RIGHT to be angry. Tell a child this often enough and they believe it. do this during someone's entire childhood and by the time they are adults they don't even know how to talk about anger, much less let herself feel it.</p><p></p><p>If she was hurt or scared her family laughed at her, told her she was too sensitive, and then did whatever hurt or scared her every chance they got so they could be entertained by her fear and pain. They are truly sick people. </p><p></p><p>You can get posters and little flip books with expressions and the feeling they describe. They can be very helpful for her. wiz was and used his to show us how he felt. Just a thought.</p><p></p><p>This is to the poster by cartoonist jim Borgman. We used his book with all of these faces so Wiz could show us exactly each one. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Borgman-height-Quality-Art/dp/B0021Z99BI/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=home-garden&qid=1253124113&sr=8-3" target="_blank">http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Borgman-height-Quality-Art/dp/B0021Z99BI/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=home-garden&qid=1253124113&sr=8-3</a></p><p></p><p></p><p>The book is called mood Swings. I am having a glitch and cannot post anymore links, so if you search for How are you feeling on amazon you should see it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 305410, member: 1233"] Oh - on the "frustrated" front: Being angry, hurt or scared was NOT something she has ever been safe to express. Holding it in, explaining it as frustration, is how she protected herself. If she was angry they were abusive, told her she had NO RIGHT to be angry. Tell a child this often enough and they believe it. do this during someone's entire childhood and by the time they are adults they don't even know how to talk about anger, much less let herself feel it. If she was hurt or scared her family laughed at her, told her she was too sensitive, and then did whatever hurt or scared her every chance they got so they could be entertained by her fear and pain. They are truly sick people. You can get posters and little flip books with expressions and the feeling they describe. They can be very helpful for her. wiz was and used his to show us how he felt. Just a thought. This is to the poster by cartoonist jim Borgman. We used his book with all of these faces so Wiz could show us exactly each one. [url]http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Borgman-height-Quality-Art/dp/B0021Z99BI/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=home-garden&qid=1253124113&sr=8-3[/url] The book is called mood Swings. I am having a glitch and cannot post anymore links, so if you search for How are you feeling on amazon you should see it. [/QUOTE]
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