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I am in need of primal scream therapy - seriously
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 392419" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I've paid money I don't want to spend in the past to A) block her number, B) change my number C) unlist my number. She gets it (difficult child bro!). She'll call from wherever. She has even used a payphone as it shows up as public telephone which is normally my S/O calling on breaks etc which he does daily (and she knows this). I mean really, when I refuse to speak or even put phone to ear to listen and repeatedly just answer and hang up on her, well there's her sign Know what I mean?? And she calls more again anyhow. </p><p></p><p>Its been about a year roughly since this final ending, previously there were long periods of absence but never final like this is (and has been very clear to her that this is final).</p><p></p><p>On Halloween, before my difficult child bro went difficult child again, we visited him. He lives in a complex of townhouses, as does my mother. She knew to stay away from his place while we were visiting. Anyhow he had to run her something so easy child asked if she could go along to say hi, said she felt guilty and it was a way to say hi but knowing she didn't have to visit since it was a quick drop off for her from my bro, no time to visit as our dinner was ready at my bro's. </p><p></p><p>Well the following day she raged at my bro for bring easy child along. She then called my beautiful wee easy child a "beeping A", said she looked like a "fat pig" and told my bro that my 11 yr old easy child "owes her better than a 2 minute visit after a year". Well that is all so fresh in my mind it burns. To say those things about my daughter? Call her those ugly things? And WTH? A 11 year old OWES someone something? My easy child is terrified of my mother but was just in process of losing 2 grandparents within 11 days and needed to see her "gramma". I'm so glad my easy child doesn't know the hateful venous things this terror called her. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>I have a friend who is a local police officer. If I get another call I'm going to have her, while on shift at a quiet moment, stop off to pass along a warning that she is to cease all attempts at contacting me or my children otherwise I will seek a court order. It is required here to have it documented that you actually had them told first by authority. It is sick that I may have to do either of these things, police contact or a court order. </p><p></p><p>I just know I need peace and space to heal from 36 years of her koi.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 392419, member: 4264"] :( I've paid money I don't want to spend in the past to A) block her number, B) change my number C) unlist my number. She gets it (difficult child bro!). She'll call from wherever. She has even used a payphone as it shows up as public telephone which is normally my S/O calling on breaks etc which he does daily (and she knows this). I mean really, when I refuse to speak or even put phone to ear to listen and repeatedly just answer and hang up on her, well there's her sign Know what I mean?? And she calls more again anyhow. Its been about a year roughly since this final ending, previously there were long periods of absence but never final like this is (and has been very clear to her that this is final). On Halloween, before my difficult child bro went difficult child again, we visited him. He lives in a complex of townhouses, as does my mother. She knew to stay away from his place while we were visiting. Anyhow he had to run her something so easy child asked if she could go along to say hi, said she felt guilty and it was a way to say hi but knowing she didn't have to visit since it was a quick drop off for her from my bro, no time to visit as our dinner was ready at my bro's. Well the following day she raged at my bro for bring easy child along. She then called my beautiful wee easy child a "beeping A", said she looked like a "fat pig" and told my bro that my 11 yr old easy child "owes her better than a 2 minute visit after a year". Well that is all so fresh in my mind it burns. To say those things about my daughter? Call her those ugly things? And WTH? A 11 year old OWES someone something? My easy child is terrified of my mother but was just in process of losing 2 grandparents within 11 days and needed to see her "gramma". I'm so glad my easy child doesn't know the hateful venous things this terror called her. :( I have a friend who is a local police officer. If I get another call I'm going to have her, while on shift at a quiet moment, stop off to pass along a warning that she is to cease all attempts at contacting me or my children otherwise I will seek a court order. It is required here to have it documented that you actually had them told first by authority. It is sick that I may have to do either of these things, police contact or a court order. I just know I need peace and space to heal from 36 years of her koi. [/QUOTE]
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