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I am in need of primal scream therapy - seriously
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 392427" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I've been there - with mother in law. </p><p> </p><p>I didn't wait for that second call, or for my friend to stop by and give her an option of calling again and me 'waiting on pins and needles'.....I wrote the CEASE IMMEDIATELY letter and filed it with the local magistrate. I was done. All my times of spending waiting to answer the phone after someone left their message, waiting to see if that strange number was a real number trying to call me about medications, or things important to me or if it were mother in law calling from someone elses phone - UGH the woman was sneaky, ruthless and bored. So after many times of stating "DUDE does NOT want to talk to you, nothing of my doing - your number is clearly written on the dry erase board - her showing up at my house unnanounced and SEEING HER NUMBER STILL WRITTEN IN RED INK 3" letters where she left it with a heart x's and o's and the words CALL YOUR LOVING GRANDMOTHER - and then STILL calling me and doing the intimidation and making me ill? THAT was it - THAT WAS IT. </p><p> </p><p>No maam - she called once after stopping by - and I told her DO NOT CALL HERE AGAIN OR I WILL TAKE THIS TO THE MAGISTRATE - she laughed. The next time she called? I let the answering machine pick it up, unplugged the damn thing and took it, the dry erase board and myself to the police station and filed a notice of harrassment. Then I went to the magistrate and filed something (forget what it's called now) but it meant she was BOTHERING me - and then typed out a letter in my own words and sent it to her registered, and regular, sent a copy to her son my x, registered and regular mail - a copy to the magistrate, the police, the therapist, the state governors office, the domestic violence shelter that had helped me get away from this family and cc: all of them on HER and HIS letter - (didn't put names - left them as XX's - except for the therapist) and do you know she CALLED the therapist?? OMG it was a dream come true. </p><p> </p><p>The therapist told her he couldn't give out any information, due to client privledge, HOWEVER it had been discussed in MY sessions and I had agreed to release information to her IF she did (KNOWING she would) and he told her that HER constant interfering, and pety manipulation were not helpful - but damaging and if she truly wanted to see her grandson thrive? STOP calling because the papers had been filed with the local magistrate and I would make good on the filing. </p><p> </p><p>After that? It stopped, and except for an unlisted number that I still have due to X? I don't have the same pensive feeling and gut uproar you have. Dude had about 5 years where Granny didn't mess with us - and I know for a fact she had my letter scrutinized by attorneys because it was discussed with Dude recently - lol....WHATEVER. Had she kept her big trap shut? Stayed away? And.....her kids had not run her over with her own minivan and then covered it up to the cops because well - you know that family does NOT involve the law at any cost? She probably would be having a conversation with her grandson right now. But alas - her own kids told the police she ran over herself. Bittersweet. </p><p> </p><p>don't wait - MM - Go file now - give yourself a gift.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 392427, member: 4964"] I've been there - with mother in law. I didn't wait for that second call, or for my friend to stop by and give her an option of calling again and me 'waiting on pins and needles'.....I wrote the CEASE IMMEDIATELY letter and filed it with the local magistrate. I was done. All my times of spending waiting to answer the phone after someone left their message, waiting to see if that strange number was a real number trying to call me about medications, or things important to me or if it were mother in law calling from someone elses phone - UGH the woman was sneaky, ruthless and bored. So after many times of stating "DUDE does NOT want to talk to you, nothing of my doing - your number is clearly written on the dry erase board - her showing up at my house unnanounced and SEEING HER NUMBER STILL WRITTEN IN RED INK 3" letters where she left it with a heart x's and o's and the words CALL YOUR LOVING GRANDMOTHER - and then STILL calling me and doing the intimidation and making me ill? THAT was it - THAT WAS IT. No maam - she called once after stopping by - and I told her DO NOT CALL HERE AGAIN OR I WILL TAKE THIS TO THE MAGISTRATE - she laughed. The next time she called? I let the answering machine pick it up, unplugged the damn thing and took it, the dry erase board and myself to the police station and filed a notice of harrassment. Then I went to the magistrate and filed something (forget what it's called now) but it meant she was BOTHERING me - and then typed out a letter in my own words and sent it to her registered, and regular, sent a copy to her son my x, registered and regular mail - a copy to the magistrate, the police, the therapist, the state governors office, the domestic violence shelter that had helped me get away from this family and cc: all of them on HER and HIS letter - (didn't put names - left them as XX's - except for the therapist) and do you know she CALLED the therapist?? OMG it was a dream come true. The therapist told her he couldn't give out any information, due to client privledge, HOWEVER it had been discussed in MY sessions and I had agreed to release information to her IF she did (KNOWING she would) and he told her that HER constant interfering, and pety manipulation were not helpful - but damaging and if she truly wanted to see her grandson thrive? STOP calling because the papers had been filed with the local magistrate and I would make good on the filing. After that? It stopped, and except for an unlisted number that I still have due to X? I don't have the same pensive feeling and gut uproar you have. Dude had about 5 years where Granny didn't mess with us - and I know for a fact she had my letter scrutinized by attorneys because it was discussed with Dude recently - lol....WHATEVER. Had she kept her big trap shut? Stayed away? And.....her kids had not run her over with her own minivan and then covered it up to the cops because well - you know that family does NOT involve the law at any cost? She probably would be having a conversation with her grandson right now. But alas - her own kids told the police she ran over herself. Bittersweet. don't wait - MM - Go file now - give yourself a gift. [/QUOTE]
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