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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 244899" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Thanks guys.</p><p>You know H's death could be literally on 48 Hours. It is that much of a mystery and enigma. In fact I have thought of contacting them.</p><p></p><p>The coroners cause of death was accidental drowning. The police said they listed it as that because she had been in the water too long to have any tangible evidence. In addition the police <em>never</em> expected to find her dead. Their words. It was a missing persons case the whole time, until some innocent couple was taking a walk around the park and saw her body. (Horrible for them.)</p><p></p><p>As you remember I had been screaming murder the whole time, which is why the police became annoyed with me, and removed me from the investigation. So any evidence they would have had, would have gone unnoticed because the police focused on this investigation with the wrong lens. However, my sister swam 2 miles a day as exercise - and then she drowns in 10 feet of water in a pond the size of 2 swimming pools? Come on. An accident?</p><p></p><p>So finally, after months of waiting, I got a hold of the coroners report. I think I posted about it at the time, because the police were saying there was "was no evidence of foul play", and yet she had bruising and puncture marks all over her arms. Never been told that she had bruising, by any cop. It was always "there is no evidence of foul play."</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately I burned my bridges with those cops - and with my parents over this. So talking to either of them over this is moot. Even Hs best friend does not want to admit that something could have really happened to H besides an accident. That someone else may have hurt her, she can barely fathom, let alone talk about. For me, and evidently, only me, it just produces fury. Broiling, guttural fury. Perhaps because she was my little sister, and since the day she was born I felt overly protective of her. We did not live in a healthy family, so I alway felt it was my responsibility to protect her. So when she went missing I was like a bull in a china shop - ready to take on the world to find her. Everyone shut me down. And then they found her body, and I shut down to my grief. </p><p></p><p>Anyway........this long rambling post just to say answer Jens question about the cause of death.</p><p>I kept thinking I would have to go up there to OR to break open this case, but now I have convinced myself I can do most of myself from my computer & telephone here in Dallas.</p><p></p><p>PS</p><p>The really haunting thing for me, is that when I found out she was missing I boarded a plane to OR to find her. I was trembling, and beside myself, because I knew H enough to know she was not just going to go missing unless something had happened to her. So I closed my eyes on the plane, as it was taking off, just trying to calm down - and I see this image flash through my brain. It was of someone holding H down, specifically her feet - holding her down so she could not move.</p><p></p><p>Fast forward to her cause of death. One of the only ways she could have died in that small body of water, without a blow to the head, is the above scenario. It gives me chills.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 244899, member: 3301"] Thanks guys. You know H's death could be literally on 48 Hours. It is that much of a mystery and enigma. In fact I have thought of contacting them. The coroners cause of death was accidental drowning. The police said they listed it as that because she had been in the water too long to have any tangible evidence. In addition the police [I]never[/I] expected to find her dead. Their words. It was a missing persons case the whole time, until some innocent couple was taking a walk around the park and saw her body. (Horrible for them.) As you remember I had been screaming murder the whole time, which is why the police became annoyed with me, and removed me from the investigation. So any evidence they would have had, would have gone unnoticed because the police focused on this investigation with the wrong lens. However, my sister swam 2 miles a day as exercise - and then she drowns in 10 feet of water in a pond the size of 2 swimming pools? Come on. An accident? So finally, after months of waiting, I got a hold of the coroners report. I think I posted about it at the time, because the police were saying there was "was no evidence of foul play", and yet she had bruising and puncture marks all over her arms. Never been told that she had bruising, by any cop. It was always "there is no evidence of foul play." Unfortunately I burned my bridges with those cops - and with my parents over this. So talking to either of them over this is moot. Even Hs best friend does not want to admit that something could have really happened to H besides an accident. That someone else may have hurt her, she can barely fathom, let alone talk about. For me, and evidently, only me, it just produces fury. Broiling, guttural fury. Perhaps because she was my little sister, and since the day she was born I felt overly protective of her. We did not live in a healthy family, so I alway felt it was my responsibility to protect her. So when she went missing I was like a bull in a china shop - ready to take on the world to find her. Everyone shut me down. And then they found her body, and I shut down to my grief. Anyway........this long rambling post just to say answer Jens question about the cause of death. I kept thinking I would have to go up there to OR to break open this case, but now I have convinced myself I can do most of myself from my computer & telephone here in Dallas. PS The really haunting thing for me, is that when I found out she was missing I boarded a plane to OR to find her. I was trembling, and beside myself, because I knew H enough to know she was not just going to go missing unless something had happened to her. So I closed my eyes on the plane, as it was taking off, just trying to calm down - and I see this image flash through my brain. It was of someone holding H down, specifically her feet - holding her down so she could not move. Fast forward to her cause of death. One of the only ways she could have died in that small body of water, without a blow to the head, is the above scenario. It gives me chills. [/QUOTE]
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