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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 607287" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>You raise an interesting point in your message. You say you believe your daughter is this way because when she was younger you gave in to her. Now, I wonder if that is so? That is a genuine question - I really wonder it. I suspect that it doesn't quite work that way but I am not on the ground and you are.</p><p>No-one can diagnose from afar, of course, especially not after one post! On the other hand, I imagine it would be extremely useful to get an evaluation for your child. You say you don't have the money for it. Are there any ways to do this without having to fork out large sums?</p><p>This behaviour, especially as it is constant, sounds exhausting, stressful and distressing for all concerned. As you say, it doesn't sound like simply imposing consequences is the answer. Is it possible to use Plan B with her at all, a la Explosive Child? The author talks about great results being achieved with it over time, and I don't imagine he was making those success stories up <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>Can you describe an incident for us in more detail - what happens and why?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 607287, member: 11227"] You raise an interesting point in your message. You say you believe your daughter is this way because when she was younger you gave in to her. Now, I wonder if that is so? That is a genuine question - I really wonder it. I suspect that it doesn't quite work that way but I am not on the ground and you are. No-one can diagnose from afar, of course, especially not after one post! On the other hand, I imagine it would be extremely useful to get an evaluation for your child. You say you don't have the money for it. Are there any ways to do this without having to fork out large sums? This behaviour, especially as it is constant, sounds exhausting, stressful and distressing for all concerned. As you say, it doesn't sound like simply imposing consequences is the answer. Is it possible to use Plan B with her at all, a la Explosive Child? The author talks about great results being achieved with it over time, and I don't imagine he was making those success stories up :) Can you describe an incident for us in more detail - what happens and why? [/QUOTE]
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