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<blockquote data-quote="TPaul" data-source="post: 328679" data-attributes="member: 8055"><p><strong><span style="color: darkred">Wow a day I can really take the time to post, <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Heather, I understand how you feel!! And you have every right to feel the way you do! IT IS YOUR HOME! Set down the guidelines and rules and they have the choice to follow them, or not be allowed to be there.</span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">It does not mean that you do not love them, just that they are at an age that the dynamics of the home change. No longer are they a child who should be supported and raised, provided for. Now they are adults who need to step up to the plate and begin living life as an adult. They need to take the step or leap out of the nest. Just like a fledgling needs a nudge out of the nest a grown child needs nudged out on thier own. </span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">He will feel better about himself as the man of his own home, and the provider for thier relationship. He may not see that right now, with things being easier being in your home. Down the line he will see it and be thankful that you nudged him. </span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">I do not know your finacial situation, but since you are providing everything for them to live in your home, and I am guessing buying most of the things they need and use, here is an idea. You might suggest a subsidy to them for a set period of time. Once they are out of the house, you will give them X number of dollars to help them for X amount of time. After that time, then the dollars stop and they are on thier own. It help give them the nudge, if you can swing it, and give you quicker peace, <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></span></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Gentle and soothing thoughts your way</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #8b0000">Tpaul</span></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TPaul, post: 328679, member: 8055"] [B][COLOR=darkred]Wow a day I can really take the time to post, :)[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Heather, I understand how you feel!! And you have every right to feel the way you do! IT IS YOUR HOME! Set down the guidelines and rules and they have the choice to follow them, or not be allowed to be there.[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]It does not mean that you do not love them, just that they are at an age that the dynamics of the home change. No longer are they a child who should be supported and raised, provided for. Now they are adults who need to step up to the plate and begin living life as an adult. They need to take the step or leap out of the nest. Just like a fledgling needs a nudge out of the nest a grown child needs nudged out on thier own. [/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]He will feel better about himself as the man of his own home, and the provider for thier relationship. He may not see that right now, with things being easier being in your home. Down the line he will see it and be thankful that you nudged him. [/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]I do not know your finacial situation, but since you are providing everything for them to live in your home, and I am guessing buying most of the things they need and use, here is an idea. You might suggest a subsidy to them for a set period of time. Once they are out of the house, you will give them X number of dollars to help them for X amount of time. After that time, then the dollars stop and they are on thier own. It help give them the nudge, if you can swing it, and give you quicker peace, :)[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000][/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Gentle and soothing thoughts your way[/COLOR][/B] [B][COLOR=#8b0000]Tpaul[/COLOR][/B] [/QUOTE]
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