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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 437908" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>It takes years.......it's a process.....but little by little? It happens and the groovy thing about it all? By the time that you realize you aren't a fixer? You don't care to be one anyway. Those thoughts are replaced with a lot of wisdome about self, and awareness of things that you THOUGHT were shortcomings in others. It's a really intricate process, but the longer you develop your relationship with your therapist? The better you get to know yourself. THAT is the real beauty of all of therapy. It's just a process that takes time. You didn't get 'this way' over night - and you are not going to fix yourself fast track over night either. Forgiving ourselves takes much longer than forgiving others. Just go with it. Hugs -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 437908, member: 4964"] It takes years.......it's a process.....but little by little? It happens and the groovy thing about it all? By the time that you realize you aren't a fixer? You don't care to be one anyway. Those thoughts are replaced with a lot of wisdome about self, and awareness of things that you THOUGHT were shortcomings in others. It's a really intricate process, but the longer you develop your relationship with your therapist? The better you get to know yourself. THAT is the real beauty of all of therapy. It's just a process that takes time. You didn't get 'this way' over night - and you are not going to fix yourself fast track over night either. Forgiving ourselves takes much longer than forgiving others. Just go with it. Hugs - [/QUOTE]
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