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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 198727" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Dear Heather! I had to walk away for a few minutes to gather my thoughts on your situation because this is something that I'm watching my sister go through right now as well.</p><p> </p><p>Frankly, I want to fly out to you and kick the **** out of the people that are doing this to you (except easy child and I'll tell you why).</p><p> </p><p>easy child, while you were going through the beginning of all of this was your typical teenager. My lil sis is going through this with her just turned 10 year old. Everything is about them and it doesn't matter that you're sick. Me, me, me. Male, typical, and you'll be able to toss the guilt at him once he matures up a little. Enjoy the fact that this has absolutely nothing to do with how you're raising him. Fact is: he's a typical PITA. You could have been healthy and doing hand springs and he'd still be acting like a little farging, icehole, bastage (in the immortal words of "Johnny Dangerously").</p><p> </p><p>Your mom was being the typical PITA who wants to know all of your business, but doesn't want to be inconvenienced by your issues. This is where I start getting po'd. I HATE THAT TYPE OF ****!!!! Truly, the most annoying person to me is the judgemental type. It just drives me batty. The psychiatric side of things can be explained away with the generational mentality of shame associated with anything that has to do with mental health. It just amazes me to date that people would rather look at you as being attention seeking or as a bad parent as opposed to considering that there could be a chemical imbalance.</p><p> </p><p>I am, out of 6 kids, the only one that will talk to my little sister. I've been shunned, backstabbed, talked about, and publically smeared because I refuse to look at her as an attention seeking sicko who's manipulating my father. It's horribly lonely for her, and I will go to the wall to defend her against those who are supposed to be her family.</p><p> </p><p>She on the other hand, has been seeing a wonderful therapist, who after about 6 months, was able to get through to her that it's the rest of the family that needs therapy in this issue rather than her.</p><p> </p><p>To the icehole that's sending you pray for recovery emails - I think I'd get smug satisfaction by writing back and telling her to go pee up a flagpole. I'd tell her that the way she treated you while you were working proved to you what type of Christian she truly was. And be mean. Read it over and over and over and it might make you feel better. You don't have to actually send it (although I'm sooooo hormonal today that I would!), just knowing that you can write it down sometimes does the trick!</p><p> </p><p>If you want a preggo butt-kicking for any of them, let me know, I'll find a way to get a plane ticket!</p><p> </p><p>Thinking of you!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 198727, member: 3814"] Dear Heather! I had to walk away for a few minutes to gather my thoughts on your situation because this is something that I'm watching my sister go through right now as well. Frankly, I want to fly out to you and kick the **** out of the people that are doing this to you (except easy child and I'll tell you why). easy child, while you were going through the beginning of all of this was your typical teenager. My lil sis is going through this with her just turned 10 year old. Everything is about them and it doesn't matter that you're sick. Me, me, me. Male, typical, and you'll be able to toss the guilt at him once he matures up a little. Enjoy the fact that this has absolutely nothing to do with how you're raising him. Fact is: he's a typical PITA. You could have been healthy and doing hand springs and he'd still be acting like a little farging, icehole, bastage (in the immortal words of "Johnny Dangerously"). Your mom was being the typical PITA who wants to know all of your business, but doesn't want to be inconvenienced by your issues. This is where I start getting po'd. I HATE THAT TYPE OF ****!!!! Truly, the most annoying person to me is the judgemental type. It just drives me batty. The psychiatric side of things can be explained away with the generational mentality of shame associated with anything that has to do with mental health. It just amazes me to date that people would rather look at you as being attention seeking or as a bad parent as opposed to considering that there could be a chemical imbalance. I am, out of 6 kids, the only one that will talk to my little sister. I've been shunned, backstabbed, talked about, and publically smeared because I refuse to look at her as an attention seeking sicko who's manipulating my father. It's horribly lonely for her, and I will go to the wall to defend her against those who are supposed to be her family. She on the other hand, has been seeing a wonderful therapist, who after about 6 months, was able to get through to her that it's the rest of the family that needs therapy in this issue rather than her. To the icehole that's sending you pray for recovery emails - I think I'd get smug satisfaction by writing back and telling her to go pee up a flagpole. I'd tell her that the way she treated you while you were working proved to you what type of Christian she truly was. And be mean. Read it over and over and over and it might make you feel better. You don't have to actually send it (although I'm sooooo hormonal today that I would!), just knowing that you can write it down sometimes does the trick! If you want a preggo butt-kicking for any of them, let me know, I'll find a way to get a plane ticket! Thinking of you! Beth [/QUOTE]
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