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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 508303" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Yes, difficult children don't get it. However... sometimes (in my observation, often) the reality is that they <em>cannot</em> "get it". There is something else going on, they are being driven by things they have no control over... it can be anything from medications issues on an existing diagnosis, to wrong dxes, to missing dxes, to not having the right supports in place for the dxes... </p><p></p><p>And it seems like it is way worse if the issues and challenges are not caught early... the longer things go on, the more ingrained habits become, and the more layers of other issues that get added (depression, anxiety, drug use, etc.)</p><p></p><p>It is NOT your fault that things are this way. Both the schools and the medical community frequently miss all sorts of things, and we are the ones who have to deal with the fall-out. But... you are where you are, right now. Who did her diagnosis? has she ever had a comprehensive evaluation?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 508303, member: 11791"] Yes, difficult children don't get it. However... sometimes (in my observation, often) the reality is that they [I]cannot[/I] "get it". There is something else going on, they are being driven by things they have no control over... it can be anything from medications issues on an existing diagnosis, to wrong dxes, to missing dxes, to not having the right supports in place for the dxes... And it seems like it is way worse if the issues and challenges are not caught early... the longer things go on, the more ingrained habits become, and the more layers of other issues that get added (depression, anxiety, drug use, etc.) It is NOT your fault that things are this way. Both the schools and the medical community frequently miss all sorts of things, and we are the ones who have to deal with the fall-out. But... you are where you are, right now. Who did her diagnosis? has she ever had a comprehensive evaluation? [/QUOTE]
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